A newbie's impression on this board, pros and cons

by smelly onions 293 Replies latest jw experiences

  • JT
    JT

    Yet some of their amendments actually brought them into total alignment and agreement with what other Churches have been teaching all along. In other words, Satan's worldwide empire of false religions has been teaching truths from the Bible that the Society/Governing Body discovered much later, which they then announced as "new truth". How is it that God's sole channel of communication has been so much farther behind those Churches of Satan, and is only now beginning to "catch up" with them?

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    excellent point, i ask this question to jw poster on every site i post and today NOT ONE jw has been willing to discuss the isssues raised in the above post

    to think that satan followers got the dogma right before the ONLY CHANNEL on earth did- is an Oxymoron

  • smelly onions
    smelly onions
    do you mind if i may ask, have you ever read ray franz book? the reason i ask is he goes into issues and matters that the avg jw would never know due to not having access to body of elders letters, meeting with co and do, etc- one of the first things i did was confirm the ref he provide, it was very interesting

    TO JT

    yes I have read all his books. I enjoy his books. He is quite a mild mannered man. What type of questions did you pose that got you in trouble? Are you still a member or are you df'ed? Or did you just drift out to sea like me? I'll tell you something which I believe you might concur with. Since many of the jw's that took the doctrines to heart have left I believe you may see a blander org where its members wont be so inquisitive to know things or get to the essence. Also since the annointed at the GB will disappear the strength that the org had for all intensive purposes will vanish. Basically from now on in you'll just have a rehash of the recent past without any major moves. The Franz figures I believe will be a thing of the past. Your opinion pls. JT. Yes also JT how do you think the org will be able to defend itself against its greatest disaster ( child molestation suit)? I was talking to my father (active gung ho witness for over 40 years) about his opinions from what he sees. He told me he just sees the brothers going thru the motions. Kind of like catholics at mass. That generation change really shook things up.

    BTW, JT did you know Rene Vazquez at Bethel? What became of him? Also did you know Malenfant at Bethel? What became of him also?

    Thanx for your reply.

    TO GIRL

    I hope the girl who was nitpicking me for my grammar, punctuation and spelling is now happy.

    and yes I will be looking for my nice jw girl

  • Odrade
    Odrade

    Malenfont (assuming it's the same one, is still a hard-core JW, and still a pompous ass. As of a few years ago. bleh. I was hardcore at the time, and I didn't like him then thinking him hard and lacking compassion and humanity.

  • trevor
    trevor

    I must be missing something here. When I read smelly onions first post I was not offended. I thought it was thought provoking and challenged entrenched attitudes. I like to read peoples opinions and find them interesting whether I agree or not. Smelly onions underestimated the amount of pain that has been caused and apologised. I think that showed humility and concern.

    We have all suffered to some degree I lost my whole family, which including relatives amounts to over 30 people who shun me. I cannot know how painful it has been for those who suffered worse kinds of abuse. Like many here I could have left ten years earlier than I did but stayed because it suited me to. No one made me stay so there must have been something there that I wanted at the time. I left when I was ready to.

    It is true that we are not responsible for some of the things that happened to us as a result of the Jehovah’s Witnesses. But if we are of sound mind we are responsible for how we act NOW. We can allow the past to sabotage our future or we can be brave and move beyond anger and enjoy TODAY.

    Some relatives who are still Jehovah’s Witnesses have hinted that they will see me briefly now that I have been stood in the corner for long enough. I have told them I am happy to be left alone and insist they stay away from me until they have left the corrupt organization they belong to. They are shocked to find I am happy and in control of my life and I choose who to associate with.

    I believe that taking responsibility for how we conduct our selves now, is essential if we are to move beyond anger and bitterness. It has not been easy but then no one ever promised me life would be. Judging by the response to this thread it has caused us to examine and share our own feelings and views and that is the whole point of being here.

  • JT
    JT

    . What type of questions did you pose that got you in trouble?

    there were many and the looks and stares from co and do and fellow elders as well as "pullling me to the sade" afterwards telling me to leave such issue alone, etc it becomes very clear

    but just to give you an example-

    i was the circuit acct overseer- i would come home with $12-15,000 in my brief case to deposit on monday

    well most jw don't know why the circuit always seems to be in the RED- it has to do with the way the wt back charges the circiut- the wt gives a per pub cost - now how this works is interesting

    the assembly hall overseer-- the guy who lives there-- was a buddy of mine --so we got to discussing the coss to run a weekend program

    and when he told me almost fell out- you see the hall is only used on sat and sunday, during the week there is little if any activity going on other than in their offices

    so let me show you how it works and how i got into trouble,

    i get there at 630am sat am, meet with the assemhalloverseer, he gives me the society rate to be charged -

    1000 pub @$11.00pc so at 630 you are already $11,000 in debt and the doors have not even opened- smile

    co expenses $500

    do expenese $500

    bethel speaker and wifes tickets $400

    miscl $1000

    so you already got 13,000+ indebt-

    during the sat program the do and co would have me constantly giving them the latest tally-

    during the sat meeting with the elders the vote would be taken to send anything leftover to wt INSTEAD of keeping some funds for seed money at the next assembly, many elders challenged this process for typically NOTHING was kept not even $5 for the next assembly

    we were told "Send the money to MAMA"

    it was this type of peer pressure that would make any elder who got out of line fall back into line

    much like when a resolution is taken at the hall- NO ONE every says they disagree and why not -- for fear of how they will be viewed, so much for open and free conscience decisions

    ok back to the accouting system- now keep in mind we are talking about 4 weekends at $10-15,000 a week

    that is $40,000 to 60,000 a month,

    no assembly hall montage is that much-smile

    now the kicker is it was anounced that we had paid off our assembly hall, so being the accounts servant dumb me, i asked the question would we get a Reduced per publisher rate- WRONG question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    the DO lite into my black behind like white on rice-yet so many elders approched me privately and agree, but when i asked why didn;t yousay something then, they all were afraid

    and i am talking not about some rank and file flunky- city overseer, HLC members, regional building committee members, etc, major local players- - yet not one would risk losing thier part on the district conventrion-

    and i could go on and on, when you were like me, you got to see more behind the scene matters and it became clear it had nothing to do with god or right and wrong-

    Are you still a member or are you df'ed? Or did you just drift out to sea like me?

    we faded in fact i wrote back to request my pub card and letter of intro, i was the sec in my old hall so i knew how to structure the letter and had it sent to a friend who sent it back tome

    and yes they dogged me and my wife

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    I'll tell you something which I believe you might concur with. Since many of the jw's that took the doctrines to heart have left I believe you may see a blander org where its members wont be so inquisitive to know things or get to the essence.

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    I agree 110% - look at the baptism study book it is PUFF PUFF, when i grew up you had to explain the Gentile times and 607

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    Also since the annointed at the GB will disappear the strength that the org had for all intensive purposes will vanish.

    #### and for that reason they are taking step right now to replace the gb with the given ones- see how they have removed all gb from any office holding positions in the org, in 2000 they setup 5 separate companies to protect assets, it was a brillant move i must say

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    Basically from now on in you'll just have a rehash of the recent past without any major moves.

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    you are correct, mostly today the wt articles and pub are just CUT AND PASTE

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    The Franz figures I believe will be a thing of the past.

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    yes indeed the days of it being a ONe man show are over

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    JT. Yes also JT how do you think the org will be able to defend itself against its greatest disaster ( child molestation suit)?

    ### currently i am involved in this issue, the legal dept is very good - i personally know 4 of the lawyers, 2 of them i used to run with when we were all young NEW BOYS at bethel

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    I was talking to my father (active gung ho witness for over 40 years) about his opinions from what he sees. He told me he just sees the brothers going thru the motions. Kind of like catholics at mass. That generation change really shook things up.

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    so true the generation dogma is why i left, i used to carry in my brief case the may 15-84 wt i used it in a talk all the time

    "The gen that will not die out" is the cover page, with the stroke of a pen they discarded a major dogma and then blamed the rank and file for beliving it- smile

    as of today i have helped 57 persons out of the org, not only out, but to fully understand what they were a part of- many leave and never know what they were a part of and end up going back

    i used to run an outreach in my home, we avg about 20-30 folks month- you mentioned that folks are mad as hell, well consider most folks when they realize they have been Bamboozled and Hoodwinked

    most folks would be a little peeved- for me it was somewhat different, READ MY BIO online

    i was fortunate to at least have first hand exp with the "MAN Behind the Current"

    for the avg jw around the world they have no idea of what takes place behind the curtain and sad to say many DONT want to know- they perfer living in a dream world

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    BTW, JT did you know Rene Vazquez at Bethel?

    he left before i got there, but i HEARD about him from everyone

    Also did you know Malenfant at Bethel?

    ####Yep he was my Table Head for awhile

    What became of him also?

    ### still there as far as i know

  • smelly onions
    smelly onions
    1000 pub @$11.00pc so at 630 you are already $11,000 in debt and the doors have not even opened- smile

    co expenses $500

    do expenese $500

    bethel speaker and wifes tickets $400

    miscl $1000

    JT Do you mean that the society has a figure that it charges per publisher? I dont understand this. What is the purpose of this? How do they arrive at the arbitrary figures? What about the costs of the assembly? Who pays that? Who actually owns the bldgs. where the 97,000 congregations meet around the world?

  • AuntieJane
    AuntieJane

    Welcome Smelly,

    Well, put Trevor: Smelly onions underestimated the amount of pain that has been caused and apologised. I think that showed humility and concern.

    I was uneasy with how so many posters automatically went into the Defense mode and jumped on Smelly's comments. I felt he was being honest and open, which is what boards like this are for....aren't they?

    I hope you stick around, (but I really hope you aren't serious about finding a nice JW wife...if you are NOT a JW, you should realize the burden that would put on your future children)

    Shalom,

    AuntieJane

  • talesin
    talesin

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    I'm glad you're still here and having discussions. :)

    The reason for charging so much money is, I think, obvious --- it's all about money! The WTBTS is really a book-publishing company, and money is the bottom line, not spiritual concerns.

    Just like the DF thing, which is why I told you what happened to me. Sad when elders you know all your life lie to try and entrap you. But I didn't care because I was hiding nothing. Unfortunately, I lost most of my family because of my honesty. But they are the ones I pity, they are the ones being led by false prophets (the governing body).

    Now, look at these convention ripoffs?

    It was hard for me when I saw the corruption, and I was only 17! Thank the goddess it opened my eyes when I was young, and I have not spent my life in service to a "false g*d".

    Pretty disillusioning, isn't it, when you find out the truth about the Truth (TM)?

    Wow, JT, that was something else! I had no idea about the per publisher charge at the assemblies! Very enlightening. I'm gonna copy this link to show a couple of people. Thankx!

    Keep on reading, sm. :D

    xo

    tal

  • Kaput
    Kaput

    talesin;

    Don't you mean the truth about the Untruth?

  • OldSoul
    OldSoul


    Some people were never deeply "immersed" enough to understand what ex-JWs are suffering from.

    smellyonions: My parents are jw's and they are real nice people.

    If you weren't hurt by your association with Jehovah's Witnesses, I am very happy for you. In my opinion, you make an ass of yourself by applying your experiences to the experiences of others. {edited} Just found the apology. I think that demonstrates a much greater depth of character and is a credit to you.

    Respectfully,
    OldSoul

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