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Quite a number of years ago I read a book that I think was titled "Bardo Thodol, or the Journey of the Soul After Death". The concepts were all taken from a translation of the Tibetan Book of the Dead.
In it, the author talked about the Bardo, or the place where there are many "Compartments" or "Mansions" for the Sould to go. When we die, we each go to one of these places that is a perfect match to how we conceptually visualize or believe life will be like after we die. So, for example, the Atheist or JW Nihilist would go to a place that would be a "deep sleep" for a peiod of time, which could actually be a number of years in that state. But then afterwards, they would come back into consciousness and reincarnate back into another earth-life, and go thru another "learning experience" or another lifetime. The object, of course, according to this system of Tibetan Buddhism, is to reach the point in our development or evolution that we can get off of this "wheel of life", where we no longer have to go thru this endless cycle of birth, death and rebirth.
I am not saying to you that this is absolutely true. I am just trying to share with you what one ancient source has described about what happens after we die, and how there is a place for each of us to mirror or reflect how we envision life after death, and how that determines our destiny in the hereafter.
Rod P.