kattie i agree with you too thats why i feel so bad for my family my dads 66 and all my grandparents were dead well before then and my dad keeps reminding me of that fact (thats why im meant to get reinstated asap!)
but even tho id love to i would find it hard to tell my parents the life theyve been living, the scrafices thevye made (and there have been many) have all been for nothing, i would be so cruel, and yet when i was pioneering i thought i was helping some poor old soul to see the light when i said his religon was 'a snare and a racket!'