Darth,
Yes, that makes perfect sense. They can be very possessive, in addition to their territorial qualities. And I totally understand,,, there are limits to what you can take! And peeing in the bed is one of them. My former cat had to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks once, and she freaked cause she missed me. She peed in the closet, and they had to remove the carpet and boards to rid the place of the odour. It's a real problem, and not much else you could do in a situation like yours. :(
Insomniac
Excellent! Hell, they even want to trank our pets, when the natural way is much healthier. I understand the attachment - it's only natural.
tal