Admittedly the ideal situation is for you to get an explanation just as soon as something is removed, and perhaps one may still yet hit your inbox. You'll need to garner a bit thicker skin if you want to be here very long and as an adult you might also want to consider when you say something that can be construed as inflamatory, as it most probably was, then it might get deleted. Your desire for immediate explanation why things are removed will not always get satiated so you either as Minimus points out, get used to it or not. Furthermore your suggestion this place is like the kingdom hall is the oldest piece of horse shit that has been declared time and time again by people who get their panties in a wad. Tired and simply not true.
Sincerely,
District Overbeer