skally, I'm sorry. Caty and I have gone through emotions of rage, depression, exhastion, and sheer being upset and crying. It's the 2nd beloved, sweet and special pet we've lost, plus she lost her grandfather who she loved and cared for for so long so recently. It's very difficult. When my father dies I predict it will take me a year to "get over it."
Thanks so much for caring, skally. You've been and always will be a close friend to both of us.