To dunsscot:
: ... But I think I recall Covey talking about the unhealthy habit of becoming overly engrossed in one activity or pursuit.
Kind of like becoming a Jee-Hoover Witness, eh?
: It seems that there are individuals using this medium of communication whose life's aim is to "help" JWs out of the "borg" or 'bring down the Tower.'
That is true.
: If it tricks your trigger, I guess there is nothing anyone can do to prevent you from "helping" JWs out of the "borg."
Freedom of religion and all that, eh?
: But I wonder if some here have not become monomaniacal in their deconstructive methodology.
Kind of like the Jee-Hoover Witnesses, eh?
: They just cannot seem to let JWs enjoy freedom of worship.
Kind of like Jee-Hoover Witnesses don't let anyone else enjoy freedom of worship, eh?
: They must interfere in the religious life of JWs.
Kind of like Jee-Hoover Witnesses interfere in the religious lives of others, eh?
: Yet what do they have to offer in return?
Freedom from being in a cult, for starters. Freedom to think for oneself, too. Ah, blessed freedom!
: Nothing, except believe what you want to or drink yourself half silly everyday and conduct a life governed by hedonic utility that is devoid of God.
How sad that that's all you've learned from your time on this board. The fact is that ex-JWs on this forum are as varied in their styles of life as any other non-JWs are. Very few are advocating any particular life style. The fact that many tell about their life styles, or comment on various life styles, is in no way advocating such.
: Furthermore, maybe some of you here have convinced yourself that the Bible is false, God does not exist,
Those are things that cannot be proved or disproved absolutely.
What's your point?
: and Jehovah's Witnesses are not God's people.
That's a fact that has been proved in hundreds of different ways. For example, JWs unscripturally use excommunication and shunning as a weapon. They often use it against people whose only offense is to disagree with JWs, sometimes even on minor issues. An organization that has misused its power like this for some 70 years, over and over and over again, is detestable to God, according to Scriptures you know very well.
: But I think that if I ever left JWs, I would put faith in Acts 5:35-39.
Here you've stepped through thin ice. It has been proved beyond doubt that JWs are not "of God". Assuming God exists and acts on mankind's behalf, how do you think he acts? The Bible indicates that it's through various people. False religious organizations are exposed through the actions of people. Do you object to that? If so, then you can stop preaching the JW message right now.
Let's give a concrete example. Suppose you had been raised since birth in a Christian sect that practices free sex with children (don't bother arguing that such a sect isn't really Christian; you'd be missing the point). Suddenly you realize that this practice is wrong, and you get out. You realize that your religious leaders have been practicing pedophilia for years. What will you do? Leave them to God? Or do everything in your power to expose them and stop the molestation?
: History has certainly borne out the truthfulness of this passage.
How?
: Any work that is the result of man will fail, plain and simple: It will be exposed as a work of man.
That is a truth so self-evident that it doesn't need to be said. However, some organizations are extremely long-lived. How do you know which ones today, new or old, are purely the "work of man"? Longevity and existence are not indicators, as the Watchtower Society correctly teaches.
: But if God is the author of the said work, you will not be able to overthrow it, but will in fact be found fighters against God.
Fine in principle; impossible to test in practice. If you disagree, then devise a test.
And again, you as a JW today may already be in this position with respect to any number of other organizations. Can you prove with certainty, for example, that United Bible Societies is not "of God"?
: But I end with my original question. Are some ex-JWs monomaniacal?
Monomania implies either mental illness or excessive focus. Some ex-JWs therefore, are certainly monomaniacal, just as some of all people are. Most on this board are simply focused. You have a problem with that? Are you prepared to define "excessive focus" or "mental illness"? If you try, watch out that your definitions don't point straight back at you and your friends.
: I sure know that my buddy Dave is not.
No, he's just maniacal.
AlanF