Me: Well, with this comment and a PM I received, I now realize I am debating with an idiot of collossal proportion.
He: Rhetoric instead of substance.
Here is the substance of how I came to my conclusion.
Oh, How I Hate Labels!
Here's an example of the danger of pegging, or labelling me. o-shining-one, you have labelled me pro-abortionist. What you could not have known is that I have friends in the pro-life movement who have determined to make a positive contribution towards pro-life. One runs a support group for teen moms. Another comiled a directory of services for new parents, and the third launched Kids Cottage, a safe house where parents can bring their children when they are at their wits' end. A highly successful venture, if I do say so.
Although Canada may appear to be a pinko haven, I live smack dab in the middle of red-neck bible-belt Alberta. We're Texans with health care. All Canadians are not cut the same. Assume nothing about me, ask!
There is only one way to understand me, or anybody for that matter, oshiningone, you have to talk to me! That takes time. And listening skills. I think I have established that oshiningone neither takes the time or interest in those you preach to to hope for any kind of meaningful discussion.
As soon as you resorted to name-calling, oshinignone, you had admitted defeat. All there is left is mop-up detail. Janitorial work is tedious. Thus, my comment that all the fun has been sucked out of this thread. I look forward to Christmas where I can enjoy a friendly tangle with some serious opponents.
Effective Debate as a Chess Game
Here in detail, oshiningone, are the ways your debating skills need work. We'll ignore the requirement for a personality transplant right now. If we were to compare a debate to a chess game, you assume on faith, oshiningone, that white always wins. This explains your overweening arrogance when you launch your first offensive. Perhaps experienced debaters have told you that white has the advantage, which is true. That advantage, however, must be carefully parlayed to obtain a win.
A. Wear your opponent's shoes. An effective debater must be able to argue both sides of an issue. By doing so, he becomes familiar with the weaknesses in BOTH arguments.
B. Consider the consequences of each move at least two or three steps in advance. "If I say this, they may respond thus or so. Do I have a defence against that?"
These two improvement, oso, will prevent you from stumbling down so many blind alleys.
C. When cornered, resist the tempation to "call on authority" (i.e. www.carm.org., or the eminent Mr. Clive Staples Lewis) Mr. Lewis is not here to defend himself, you are. Stand on your own words, make your own words count, and be prepared to defend them.
D. When cornered, never resort to name-calling. Ad-hominem arguments will demolish any fragments of respect you may have gleaned from the board. Readers will know you lost.
Premature Declaration of Victory
Your posthumous declaration of victory don't wash. You haven't "proved" a thing. I am reminded of a scripture,
"You are like children sitting in the market and shouting to each other, "We played the flute, but you would not dance! We sang a funeral song, but you would not cry." Luke 7:32 CEV
You have to establish credibility before anybody will listen to you. Credibility is gained by time, action, and listening skills. Also, there are a few other bad habits you need to overcome:
E. You deflect direct questions with a fuzzy answer. That tells me you know your so-called confidence in the WHOLE scripture is flawed. There are indeed some scriptures you "pick and chose" over others. Yet you won't admit this directly.
F. You start off aggressive, then try and undo the damage later. Too late, buddy. You want me to consider you a brother in the Lord? Your say-so doesn't mean a thing to me any more. I need to see works of kindness! For an extended period.
G. You label me, then attack the label. Who says I ascribe to the whole set of any group's beliefs? Straw man. Besides that such labelling is highly insulting. It means you take no time to really know people.
H. Research your opponent before you make assumptions about them. Based on your comments towards me, it is obvious you didn't even read my profile before you launched your attack. Other posters have mildly suggested that you may have grossly underestimated my capacity to love others. In other words, you have just blasphemed a child of God! Ooooops.
It is no fun defeating an opponent after only two moves. Now you've tossed aside the board in anger! What was your mistake? You assumed white would win. You immediately brought out your strongest piece and placed me in check. I took your Queen. You do not anticipate, or prepare, for an effective counterattack.
And finally, is it arrogant for me to interpret and debate bible concepts using my own mind? Why else did God give me my mind? To bury my talent is a grave sin. Luke 19:22-23. You may also consider that I know my bible far better than the average liberal Christian. You might want to reconsider that label as well.
I repeat my admonition I shared with you privately a few weeks ago.
- You are fighting the wrong enemy.
- If you want to be a worthy Christian apologist, get better at it!