You're going the thong way! (page 2)

tall penguin

The situation with my friend was that she'd already gotten into some loose conduct and the elders were attempting to discern intention and "repentance." They use the underwear questions to figure out if she went into the situation looking for sex or not. It's so crazy!
I think the elders get off on this kind of stuff. I recall my jc about 5 years ago. The PO asked me very intimate details about a very brief encounter with a man and had the nerve to ask whether I climaxed or not!!! I could see from the very pleased look on his face that he was enjoying the conversation. I felt like I was being mentally raped. Pervs!!!
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Lady Lee

'maybe that happened long time ago'

I could have sworn thongs were a rather recent invention.

The situation with my friend was that she'd already gotten into some loose conduct and the elders were attempting to discern intention and "repentance" They use the underwear questions to figure out if she went into the situation looking for sex or not. It's so crazy!

That is exactly what the questions are for.

I think the elders get off on this kind of stuff. I recall my jc about 5 years ago. The PO asked me very intimate details about a very brief encounter with a man and had the nerve to ask whether I climaxed or not!!! I could see from the very pleased look on his face that he was enjoying the conversation.

Yea they seem to think that if a woman has a climax then she must have wanted it. The level of awareness in these men is unbelievable!!

I felt like I was being mentally raped. Pervs!!!

There are so many people here who have had the exact same experience and felt the exact same way. It is another way the elders under the guidance of the WTS get to abuse people.

Here is another thread on ths topic or closely related topics

Disfellowshipped for Being Raped! http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/43055/1.ashx

Hellrider

These elders with their questions and obsessions are revealing more about their own oppressed sexual desires and fantasies, with all their stupid questions, than they are actually doing their duties. Did you wear a thong? (slight reaction in elders underpants) Did he kiss you "down there"? (elders crosses his legs, but unnecessary, his tiny erect wiener would never show anyway) - did you perform oral sex on him? (breaking a sweat on forehead, blood pumping thru the wein at the temples) - did he (gasp...) penetrate you? How did he do that (as it is a great mystery to mr.elder) - did you do it...(double-gasp)...from behind?

I have been told by someone who experienced a terrogation that these were the kinds of questions they actually asked. It just blew me away. And it just blew me away even more, that they don`t see that these kinds of questions reveal more about their own sexual desires, than anything else.

tweety

So, let me get this straight. Someone was checking out her ass, noticed the lack of panty-line and got the elders involved? Let me guess, some shrew of an elder's wife?

I think that daystar got it right! My quess is that an elders wife was jealous that this young girl was wearing a thong and didn't want her husband looking at her a$$ and made a big thing over it. haa

They pick people apart over the most stupid things!

Tweety

upside/down

I'm surprised they didn't ask to smell it...

u/d(of the these bastards live vicariously through others "sins" class)

Goldminer

I've heard so many of these stories it just makes me sick that so many people are fooled into believing these men are put in place by the holy spirit to look after people's spiritual needs.

Imagine you're a sexually repressed elder and you're going to have an intimidating discussion with a young,very attractive sister in her 20's about her sexual life.Mmmmm....that's a turn-on right there,I don't care who you are.Then you can ask her sexually explicit questions and she has to answer them truthfully.WOW,now,I'm really turned on!! So you just keep it up till you find out if this girl can have an orgasm....ooooohhhh,the fantasies in my head,I hope my elderette wife loves me tonight cause I'm in the mood now.

No woman should have to put up with that kind of abuse and shame.You either sinned or didn't and your conscience has to live with it,it's not a handful of horny elders who have some kind of divine right to pass judgement on you.

Goldminer

upside/down

I had to endure my wife being ~~interrogated~~ lovingly helped by the the ~~voyeuristic pervs~~ elders in which they asked about things that even I hadn't inquired about...which positions...how often...how many people (manage a trois)...was she "enjoying" herself...did she use profanity while ~~f*cking~~ committing adultery.

I was humiliated and she was DEVASTATED!!! Not to mention the shame my kids had to face...

Those f*ckers all had boners the size of The Aid book...

I almost beat the sh*t out of them right then...and even told them so.

Then they blamed me for allowing "Satan" to overcome my wife...with my "bad attitude"...I'd done NOTHING.

Wish'd I'd a beat their asses right then...

Then they gossipped about it ALL to their wives...and the tales grew taller on down the line... We had to move....far away. And it still followed us.

She never even got DF'd... I think the PO was sweet on her.

They RUINED our already messed up lives...mo'fo's

u/d(of the will NEVER forgive them class)

lisavegas420

I was asked intimate questions about my undergarments...or lack there of. But what gets me, is that I actually answered those kinds of questions. Now, I can't even imagine anyone asking me a question like that ...let alone me answering it.

lisa

Lady Lee

Hi lisa nice to see you again

That's what's so insane about it all. We go through a terrible experience and they want more details than a cop would want or ask for. Just a bunch of window washers and button salesmen

You know when I wnet through my JC I don't even remember the questions or the answers. I was so traumatized by the whole thing. The main elder who saw me before the JC did ask a lot of very embarrassing questions. I do remember them asking me if I yelled for him to stop. I had no idea how to explain that I was too scared and paralized for anything to come out over a whisper (or maybe it was just in my head - I don't know) I just know that as a child I learned to play dead and wait for it to be over - a conditioned response.

This was all way before thong underwear. So I know I didn't get those questions.

I can't imagine a person already traumatized having to sit there and be mentally raped by these men. Makes me sick to think about it

tall penguin

I'm sick tonight just thinking about all of this. I'm so disgusted that I allowed elders into the most private and intimate of my experiences and feelings. I feel very raw and battered right now.
I was speaking to my brother last night and apparently my mother is stewing about how I hurt her when I got disfellowshipped 6 years ago and how awful I am that I'm putting HER through this again now that I've disassociated. And I'm quite angry that my mother has the nerve to be upset and resentful towards me for this, when she's the crazy who chose this f-ed up religion to begin with! I'd love to see how she'd fare if she had to face a judicial committee!
It all just makes me ill.
tp

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