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  Hi I hope i am welcome

  by cantleave in

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  hi guys and gals,.

  i am a hypocryte.

  brought up in the "truth" but know its not.

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  WuzLovesDubs

  Welcome! You are experiencing what most of us here have and are experiencing...being trapped inside this cult because they threaten to take away the very essence of ourselves...our families and friends...if we do not OBEY them. Im sorry but that is so EXACTLY OPPOSITE who God is that it makes me puke.

  Keep posting and reading here. Be true to yourself or you will implode from it. But know for a fact that doing what you need to do to keep your family is not hypocrisy. If there is one thing you did learn from the Bible it is that GOD READS HEARTS and he knows what a miserable position this cult has put you in and does not hold you responsible for it.

  If your heart is pure...that is all you need. Pay no attention to Ren she doesnt belong in either world and therefore can only make everybody in both camps as miserable as she is. We have nothing but compassion for her and hope someday that fence she is sitting on gets too hard to handle and she is freed of it.
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  Name Things JWs Believe That Are Not Actually Biblically Provable

  by minimus in

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  here's one example: being a congregation publisher.

  nowhere in the bible does it say you should be a "publisher" and turn in your time if you preach.

  they try to twist the scriptures by saying that numbers are constantly being recorded in the bible so then conforming to the rules of being a publisher is from the scriptures.. yeah, right..

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  WuzLovesDubs

  Minimus...Isnt it amazing that we dont even have to think for a SECOND about this question and can list point after point after page of things that were not Biblical that the JWs threatened us into believing or be disfellowshipped and have everything we love taken away?

  Sounds more like the Klan than Christianity.
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  Michael Jackson is Dead!

  by slimboyfat in

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  someone else posted on another forum they heard on the radio michael jackson is dead.

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  WuzLovesDubs

  I remember where I was when I heard Elvis Presley was dead in 1977. Like time stopped at that moment too. My husband at the time idolized Elvis deeply. And Elvis even with all his money and fame was extreeeeeemely unhappy. Surrounded by people who only want to ass kiss and give him whatever he wanted including a doctor prescribing med after med. Elvis deeply loved and missed his mom who died at age 42 way too young. And I believe he only wanted to be with his momma again and saw nothing else on the planet that could give him happiness but that.

  I think Michael was in pain most of his life. The stage was his way of hiding from the pain for a little while but reality always comes back when the high wears off.

  He wanted to be a dad and show that he could do a better job of it than his own dad did. I think he wanted to be a child because he was cheated out of being one. I think he loved God and always felt like he let God down too...

  Its a miserable existence. At least now he isnt hurting any more.
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  WERE HERE ANY SHOW OFFS IN YOUR CONGREGATION?

  by badboy in

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  any takers?.

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  WuzLovesDubs

  Oh yeah....the guy who "brought me into the truth" was madly in love with himself. He sang with a group of JWs in a "Witness band" and would sing at worldly night clubs and was sleeping with half the wait crew at all of them. He would throw big all JW parties and be the DJ. He drove a pop top hot red sports car with a Fuzz Buster on the dashboard. He would park in the handicapped spot because, he would say with a laugh, "Why waste the spot? We dont have any handicapped people in our congregation!" He was disfellowshipped for sleeping with several sisters. He had a five state wide following of double lifers who all covered for each other. He was reinstated and then was caught online doing cybersex and was part of an S&M group of JWs all sharing disgusting web sites with each other. He was only reproved for that because the brothers didnt know how else to handle techo-sex.

  Yeah..his wife on whom he admitted cheating a minimum of five times, including the first month he was married...finall divorced his ass.
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  Michael Jackson Baptised or Not ?

  by Poztate in

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  i would like to know was or was he not a "dunked dub" a lot of speculation seems to surround this issue.. name forum, time and place if you know and if he was ever "df or da "after that event.

  for those who follow "prince" you might want to post the same..

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  I just had a JW post on my Facebook page that "at least now Michael will be ressurected because he was once a Jehovahs Witness"

  Um...doesnt that particular honor go to ANYBODY who dies before armageddon? JW or NOT??? geeezzzzz...bandwagon jumping. They even want credit for the guy after HE'S DEAD. I wonder where all those gung ho JWs were when the guy was on trial for molestation? I betcha they WERENT going yeah...he was one of US once!

  NOT!!
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  Did Everyone Really Love Michael Jackson? (I'm Confused)

  by minimus in

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  everyone talked about him as being a weirdo.

  a pedo.

  a freak.

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  WuzLovesDubs

  Well I loved his music. Loved to watch him dance. You couldnt help but get up and move when his tunes were played. But as for his obsession with little kids and his VERY questionable "sharing of his bed" policy which he said out loud was the "most loving thing you could do"...I totally blame on his upbringing, his JWism, his abusive father and basically not HAVING a childhood. He grew up hating himself. Nobody would go through 50 or more plastic surgery procedures to change their looks so drastically if they had even a modicum of love for themselves.

  I had pity for him. Anger at times...but the EXJW in me totally felt sorry for him. Now he finally is at peace. And I have to think he knew this was coming. Ever since his trial during which he was VERY frail and was hospitalized, his health has deteriorated.

  No way in hell he could have pulled off that concert tour he was planning. Had he lived a couple months longer, the first two performances would have killed him.

  RIP Michael. Now come back and haunt the shit out of the Governing Body wouldja please?
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  Long time reader.....first time poster

  by JWinprotest in

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  hello everyone, my wife and i are currently associated with jw's.

  my mom converted when i was 3 years old in 1975, my wife was born after her parents converted.

  about 4 years ago however, my wife and i have seen many things that have discouraged us enough to start doing some research into the validity of this religion.

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  WuzLovesDubs

  Welcome and please take a BIIIIIG HUG from me because we all SO get what you are going through. But I agree with the posters who said not to jump into feeding your inlaws antijw stuff to prove your position because that will quickly get the door slammed, and not only will your wife lose her mother, your daughter will lose her grandparents.

  Take a deep breath and start planning your fade. Your daughter is not a baptized JW. If she wants to sing songs she can sing whatever her little heart wants to. She is in SCHOOL of COURSE she is going to learn those songs! That doesnt mean YOU are responsible for that does it? :)

  I know JWs who sing along with Christmas songs too. (when they think nobody hears them!)

  Welcome...keep posting here and letting us know whats happening with you k?

  LD
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  Michael Jackson is Dead!

  by slimboyfat in

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  someone else posted on another forum they heard on the radio michael jackson is dead.

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  WuzLovesDubs

  Well we either loved loving him or loved hating him...but either way he played a part in our lives. Particularly as JWs. "was he or wasnt he" "did he buy his way back into the organization?" "did he ever have sex with anybody?" "did he molest those kids or live vicariously through them the childhood he never had?"

  Rest in peace Michael...your final performance was sooner than you thought it would be.
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  ..."You Know It`s the Truth!!"...

  by OUTLAW in

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  ...................."you know it`s the truth!!

  "..........................how many times have you heard that?............jehovah`s witness you know..know you don`t go to meetings,assemblys or anything else wbt$ related......still they feel the need to tell you "you know it`s the truth!.........................you tell them,you don`t..they insist that you do!

  !..you continue to tell them you don`t..............they get pissed and tell you:"deep inside you know it`s really the truth!!

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  WuzLovesDubs

  Ok...TRUTH never changes. Not ever. Its 100% irrefutable. So...how does the JWs version of "truth" stand up to that definition? Um...IT DOESNT.

  If you speak FOR GOD then you are saying that GOD LIED if you now have a different understanding on anything you touted as TRUTH before this. Or did God decide "YOU CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH!!" spitting big godly spit balls on you the GB member as he withheld the REAL truth from you...

  God changes his mind??? God gave one truth to Jesus, one truth to Russell another truth to Rutherford and still different "truth" to "modern day" JWs?

  ROFLROFLROFLROFLROFLROFLROFLROFL!!!!
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  I can't take this pain anymore...my life at dead end

  by JustHuman14 in

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  my life has reached to a dead end...i'm stuck and there is no way out.

  i was inactive for 6 years and i'm disfellowshiped for the past 3. i would never think that my life would have been in this terrible mess.. .

  i wasn't planned to be disfellowshiped by my "wife" turned me in to the elders for apostasy 2 times!!!

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  WuzLovesDubs

  JustHuman...my friend...I see very clearly that "you" are disappearing. You have lost your sense of self and in this state of mind are no good to your children or yourself. I was a JW the first 10 years of my marriage to a JW and when I disassociated in 97 because I didnt believe ANY of it any more...he stayed in, and the games began. But I had three small children and I was NOT going to allow this cult to turn them into little haters of all things and people non JW!! Was NOT GOING TO ALLOW IT. And we struggled against each other, him dragging them to meetings and me teaching them basically the opposite of what they were hearing when they were at home. But he was NOT going to strip me of my right to believe what I WANTED to believe and he was NOT going to interfere with my right to teach MY KIDS what I believed! Your wife is plowing over you mdear and you are ALLOWING her to. If someone told me to leave my own house because they were inviting someone over there that found my company offensive...my reply would be f-k you and the horse you rode in on this is MY HOUSE and NO ONE disrespects me in MY HOUSE!! Oh HELL NO!!

  The more you allow her to do this the more depressed you will become, the less good you will be to your children on any level dad. I dont know how old your kids are or if they are baptized or how deeply entrenched they are in JW mythology...but if you are just sitting there letting her tell you what you can and cannot do and can and cannot say to your own kids then they are probably just assuming mom must be RIGHT since dad is caving. Dad is living up to all the JW urban legends about what happens to people when they "leave Jehovah" then they go "Look! Look how sad and pathetic your father is because Jehovahs love is removed from him! Look kids! See what happens when you leave Jehovahs loving organization?" DONT BE THEIR CASE STUDY!!

  Get PISSED OFF!! Take CONTROL OF YOUR HOUSE! When she tells you to do or not do something remind her that neither SHE nor her ELDERS have any control over what you DO with YOUR LIFE and if she has a problem with your parenting then she can leave. But those are YOUR kids and she doesnt have the right to keep you from them or disallow you to tell them ANYTHING. Got it??? I know you do.

  The best revenge baby is to live a GOOD LIFE! Invite your friends over. Take the high moral ground and invite her to JOIN YOU while you entertain. If she refuses to be around "worldly people" she is the one who will look bad not you. Make sure your kids are at the party and do NOT allow her to take them out of the home. Unless of course we are talking about young adults here who go where they want to.

  Medication may help you cope in the meantime...find a counselor and not a girlfriend to confide in. Dont start a new life with someone outside the marriage until you have concluded this one or that will make matters worse.

  I know you can do this...we have ALL had to deal with this cult and to cow tow to them or back down or allow them to beat us down...only fuels their self righteous fires.

  hugs and support, LD