Seems like Ray Franz was about 58 when he was kicked out of Bethel. He had been baptized for 40+ years.
I was age 56 when I started reading C of C having been baptized since I was 14 and was a fourth generation witness. Clyde was on his way out about a decade or more before I saw that the WT was a fraud. Fortunately, our two sons have also left the "truth" and are very supportive. But I still have a daughter and my father, brother, nieces and nephews, cousins, etc. I have been treated pretty bad by some of them.
Nobody is DF'd (yet), but I sometimes it would be a relief. My daughter is the main reason for not disassociating although she has treated me the worst of any of them. I just pray that something will open her eyes, but it doesn't seem likely.
Bonnie