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  Help With Cancer Treatment

  by andrej in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  my dad is a jw and has recently been diagnosed with chondrosarcoma (type of bone cancer), the oncologist says the only way to treat this is to cut off his leg and part of his pelvic bone.

  since he will not accept blood transfusion, the doctor will not perform the surgery because of the high risk of him not making it through the surgery.

  he has found an alternative doctor that has given him a lot of hope and started him on a natural chemo, various vitamins and a nutritional plan.

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  frenchbabyface

  Oh and I forgot a very important thing

  don't acte with your father like he is that (very) seek Try to act like his gonna hill very fast ... KEEP ON SMILING (they don't need to be always treated as seek people) KEEP ON JOCKING as usualy ... SO THAT HE CAN FORGET (that he is that seek) When he feels very bad and that your smiles and jokes can't help ... JUST HOLD HIM in your ARMS ... Try (I said try only) to don't cry in front of HIM (it will depress him more, cause he already knows how you feel), BRING HIM A LOT OF LITTERATURES (so that he can think about something else and read something else than the JW publication) ALSO BRING HIM THE FOOD he likes. thing who makes you think about something else like : PUZZLES, MAKETS you know like building stuff ... (that can keep his mind busy ...) ALSO PLAYING can HELP (monopoly, scrabble, dominos ...)

  JUST PROPOSE every kind of distractions (also :VIDEO - MUSIC) from time to time ... He will chose ... DO NOT INSIST If he says no ... try later ... (bringing food is very important because they barf a lot ... also their tastes can change because of the chemo ... so even try new type of food even those he didn't like before ... cakes and stuff)

  ALSO : About the GUSTAVE ROUSSY INSTITUT they are associated with the MAC DONALD's sherlter which is about 5 minutes from the hospital (means that the entire familly can be and stay very close with the seek parent) not expensive at all for a whole appartement (fares take care of the biggest part I guess something about 100 $ a month) but you will have to ask for the appartement very early (lots of demands)

  Well I just told a young studend that He can got the empty bedroom in my home the entire schoolyear ... but If your Dad chose to come here to be hilled in the (IGR) and if you need it, you'll take my bedroom my house is about 1h30 from the IGR but it's better than beeing in an other country !!! ... BUT YOU HAVE TO KNOW that HE NEEDS the ENTIRE FAMILLY AROUND and AT LEAST your MOM ... I don't know what else I can do but Andrej DO NOT HESITATE TO just PM ME...
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  Help With Cancer Treatment

  by andrej in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  my dad is a jw and has recently been diagnosed with chondrosarcoma (type of bone cancer), the oncologist says the only way to treat this is to cut off his leg and part of his pelvic bone.

  since he will not accept blood transfusion, the doctor will not perform the surgery because of the high risk of him not making it through the surgery.

  he has found an alternative doctor that has given him a lot of hope and started him on a natural chemo, various vitamins and a nutritional plan.

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  frenchbabyface

  he have to ask different surgeons : here is where Anthony have been operated it's in France but an Internationl hospital (lots of foreigner their)

  INSTITUT GUSTAVE ROUSSY
  rue Camille Desmoulins
  94800 VILLEJUIF
  Phone number : (01) 42 11 42 11

  Pr DUBOUSSET the Master (didn't want to take care of the blood stuff) but his dear, lovely, sweet and adorable best student Dr MASCARD just said to Anthony OK I'm gonna make it ! (a big challenge for him) and he DID IT ! (I'm still in love with him because of THAT !!!)

  The problem is that most of the time with bone cancer you have a protocol with chemo before and after the surgery (because of the metastases), and chemo also can kill when he will have the chemo before, his surgery, then chemo again his plaquetts blood rate will be very, very, very low to the point that he can die.

  Now to handle the chemo without blood as longer as possible they gave him a lot of IRETROPOLYETHINE injections and a lot of IRON ... but still after 8 monthes he just began to bleed by his nose without any reason and it didn't stop bleeding (it's till very hurtfull to talk about that but ... you have to know ...) That means that it was the time to try to save him with everything means also blood !!! They did it with plaquetts parts of blood.

  You have to prepare yourself to be very strong about that because if your father is very faithfull ... as his kid you won't be able to say OK, I don't care DO IT ! And because he is an adult HE will have to make the decision ...

  BE STRONG I SAID !!! If he is very faithfull the only good part of it, is that he will found the treatment and everything , means also suffering part a little bit smoother ... than most of unfaithful people because they are not scared to die and so on ... and it helps a lot whatever we now think about the blood issue and the JW dogmas

  JUST BE THERE CARING AND LOVING ...
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  Help With Cancer Treatment

  by andrej in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  my dad is a jw and has recently been diagnosed with chondrosarcoma (type of bone cancer), the oncologist says the only way to treat this is to cut off his leg and part of his pelvic bone.

  since he will not accept blood transfusion, the doctor will not perform the surgery because of the high risk of him not making it through the surgery.

  he has found an alternative doctor that has given him a lot of hope and started him on a natural chemo, various vitamins and a nutritional plan.

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  frenchbabyface

  Simon what's wrong ... ? I can't past the message

  He have to ask different surgeons: here is where Anthony have been operated it’s in
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  Help With Cancer Treatment

  by andrej in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  my dad is a jw and has recently been diagnosed with chondrosarcoma (type of bone cancer), the oncologist says the only way to treat this is to cut off his leg and part of his pelvic bone.

  since he will not accept blood transfusion, the doctor will not perform the surgery because of the high risk of him not making it through the surgery.

  he has found an alternative doctor that has given him a lot of hope and started him on a natural chemo, various vitamins and a nutritional plan.

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  frenchbabyface

  He have to ask different surgeons: here is where Anthony have been operated it’s in
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  Help With Cancer Treatment

  by andrej in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  my dad is a jw and has recently been diagnosed with chondrosarcoma (type of bone cancer), the oncologist says the only way to treat this is to cut off his leg and part of his pelvic bone.

  since he will not accept blood transfusion, the doctor will not perform the surgery because of the high risk of him not making it through the surgery.

  he has found an alternative doctor that has given him a lot of hope and started him on a natural chemo, various vitamins and a nutritional plan.

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  frenchbabyface

  He have to ask different surgeons : here is where Anthony have been operated it’s in
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  38

  Help With Cancer Treatment

  by andrej in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  my dad is a jw and has recently been diagnosed with chondrosarcoma (type of bone cancer), the oncologist says the only way to treat this is to cut off his leg and part of his pelvic bone.

  since he will not accept blood transfusion, the doctor will not perform the surgery because of the high risk of him not making it through the surgery.

  he has found an alternative doctor that has given him a lot of hope and started him on a natural chemo, various vitamins and a nutritional plan.

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  frenchbabyface

  He have to ask different surgeons : here is where Anthony have been operated it’s in
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  Help With Cancer Treatment

  by andrej in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  my dad is a jw and has recently been diagnosed with chondrosarcoma (type of bone cancer), the oncologist says the only way to treat this is to cut off his leg and part of his pelvic bone.

  since he will not accept blood transfusion, the doctor will not perform the surgery because of the high risk of him not making it through the surgery.

  he has found an alternative doctor that has given him a lot of hope and started him on a natural chemo, various vitamins and a nutritional plan.

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  frenchbabyface

  Andrej : first of all BE STRONG !

  support him even if you’re not faithful anymore, admit and accept his choices, because it can be hurtful for him if you don’t, but still you can tell him that if feels like to take blood you will support him – (medical information are confidential and even if his brothers and sisters stick around him they don’t have to know – but it would be better if you’re family don’t let them stick around !!!

  About the surgery it also depend on the surgeon (it’s a big risk for him too) for example for Anthony they cool down his body – for an 9 hours surgery to replace his femur, knee and part of tibia and stuff – didn’t gave him any blood during the surgery so it’s maybe possible for your father. (Cut a leg doesn’t take very long, but to take of a part of the pelvic I don’t know)

  He have to ask different surgeons : here is where Anthony have been operated it’s in
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  no NEWS from LOGICAL ???

  by frenchbabyface in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

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  well since his last post ... he didn't appear like everyday on the chat ... .

  and his last post was quiet sad .... anybody heard from logical since then ??

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  frenchbabyface

  Well ... I hope he will appear very soon ...
  thanks to all of you was wondering ...
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  What Would A Jehovah's Witness Romance Novel Be Like?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was reading in the religion page of the newspaper today that the mormons are enjoying romance novels in which descriptions of the characters' sex lives are limited to little more the first kiss--- that could happen after they are engaged to be married........any ideas of what a jw romance novel might be like?

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  frenchbabyface

  Once upon a time ... he was european and she was asian ... he was JWs and she was Buddhist ... he was handsome and she was ugly ... he was little and she was tall ... he was thin and she was fat ... they've got 10 kids all beautifful who became JWBUDDHIST ...HAPPY END
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  no NEWS from LOGICAL ???

  by frenchbabyface in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

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  well since his last post ... he didn't appear like everyday on the chat ... .

  and his last post was quiet sad .... anybody heard from logical since then ??

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  frenchbabyface

  well since his last post ... he didn't appear like everyday on the chat ...
  And his last post was quiet sad ...
  ANYBODY HEARD FROM LOGICAL SINCE THEN ???