thanks everyone : NOW that I've got more and more INFO I have to CATCH my MOMMY !!! to have a talk about her sacred bible ... she already openned One eye somehow ... (she began to wondering ... YES) just need to push a bit more ... Hope she'll be able to open the other eye before she closed the first one ...
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Yet another example of how silly the Bible is...
by Abaddon inokay, let's go along with the flood story for a moment, to the point where noah exits the ark.. here we have noah, with two of each animal and seven of the clean animals; maybe a few dozen animals that were not essential to the future survival of the species.. what does god do?.
tells noah he can eat animals now.. are you telling me an all-wise, all-knowing god isn't capable of better planning than that?
which strikes you as more likely?
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Rlealy Amzanig
by talley inaoccdrnig to a rscheearch sdtuy at cmabrigde uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae.
the rset can be a total mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit any porbelm.
tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.
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frenchbabyface
weird LOL - it works !!!
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No Respect
by StinkyPantz ini have a friend who refuses to tell me how old he is.
he claims that people often judge you or pigeon-hole you when they find out how old you are.
i have tried to argue against this point, but i have recently realized how true this is.
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Ok ... I didn't read the answers before to answer myself so it may have been already stated that way from many people :
Even a kid (even very young) can be as efficient as an adulte, and sometimes more ... (maybe not in the terms they use, but in the effect of what they are talking about).
Anyway Stinky ... I've noticed everything you said (whatever it was Jokes / sens - arguments / Teases / ...) And if I didn't knew how old you are ... I wouldn't care at all. And Yesssssssss I like to read you (well sometimes I don't understant why you tease people but I don't understant everything anyway ...)
Now I'm gonna read all the posts
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My biopsy test results are back - good news
by Lady Lee inwooheee .
i'm cancer free.
i am so relieved.
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frenchbabyface
good news ... (((Lady Lee)))
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Our Wedding Picture
by doodle-v in.
hey guys, we just got back from vegas!
got home at 3 this morning *yawn* we had a blast though!
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CONGRATS ...
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Women and abusive relationships...I don't understand?
by obiwan inwhy do you stay in an abusive relationship?
do you feel that it's your responsibility to change him?
do you feel you "owe" him.
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frenchbabyface
Talisen :
ex. you know your brother hits his wife, but you don't call him on it ex. you hear the guy next door beating his wife, but you don't call police (b)ex. you see the bruises of a co-worker and don't offer your home as refuge (a and b) thoughts? comments? Yes but :(a) YOU can get in trouble YOURSELF / those "men" are WEIRD they feel like their wife are their property !!! You are the one who’s trying to take their toy !!!
(b) MORE THE COPS KNOCK on the DOOR if the WOMAN is NOT READY to LEAVE Right then … she is in MORE in TROUBLE right Then. IF you do something like that ... BE READY to testify/witnessing and/or To MOVE yourself IN AN OTHER TOWN
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Women and abusive relationships...I don't understand?
by obiwan inwhy do you stay in an abusive relationship?
do you feel that it's your responsibility to change him?
do you feel you "owe" him.
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((( Beryl))) you didn't had the support you needed at that period of time (it's TERRIBLE) THIS WAS ONLY A MAN'S WORLD
JNGAT : What can you do for someone who is caught in an abusive relationship? As hard as it is to watch, all you can do is give them information, and be ready to support them when they are ready to leave (A). I am talking about practical supports, such as grocery shopping, bundling the kids for day care, that sort of thing. You cannot force someone to see reality (B), or to take the tough road of independence, if they are not ready. By trying to force an abused person to leave, you in turn become the new dominator, who the dependent person will look to for making all his/her decisions. As soon as you drop your supports, they will go back.
(A) Yes It’s true (thanks Jgnat I’ve forgot about that AND IT IS NOT A DETAIL !!!)… it can even make her feel bad to the point that she won’t talk about it again anymore !!! (so yes we have to pay attention about that - LISTENNING and UNDERSTANDING FIRST), It’s a matter of professional / or a very aware and ready to HELP for REAL and ABLE TO HELP person
(B) Show her the pic of the woman of DIMPLES case for example Detail : He beat and kicked her so bad that brain fluid was coming out of her ears (that way she can have an idea of how she or her kids can end up ) It’s a shock but then she will think about your kids lives before her kids food (and not that she need a man or a father for her kids like that) . Again EVERYBODY IS NOT ABLE TO HANDLE THE PROCESS IN THE BEST WAY : That’s the way true professionals are acting because it helps to take the decision FASTER (before THE accident)
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Women and abusive relationships...I don't understand?
by obiwan inwhy do you stay in an abusive relationship?
do you feel that it's your responsibility to change him?
do you feel you "owe" him.
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frenchbabyface
I always find it astonishing that the question is always asked about "Why does a woman stay?" Why aren't we asking the question, "Why does a man hit a woman?"
Only because there is nothing you can do against the man while the woman is still in the same house / And the man won't understand as far as he can retaliate or feel that I can wait a little bit and do it again and anyway he won't understand till she didn't leave him for real (some does but it is very rare) !!! So the woman have to be in safe place FIRST
It seems to me to be another way of blaming the woman, which is society's way of ridding men of taking responsibility for their own actions.
Yes it's true somewhere BUT they need a SHOCK to WAKE UP ....and ESCAPE FROM HELL !
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Women and abusive relationships...I don't understand?
by obiwan inwhy do you stay in an abusive relationship?
do you feel that it's your responsibility to change him?
do you feel you "owe" him.
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((( to those who shared )))
... It rings my bells, but I can't tell because it is related to someone* I love too much and I don't want him to get details in getting a look in here*.
But I feel for you ... AND I'm just happy, happy, happy that you are out of it, It feels SO GOOD THEN ... !!! OH YESSSSSSssssss
Take careCorinne
* his favorit poste here is "the most beautifull girls .... " or something like that ...
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The locking of threads.
by seven006 init seems like there is a little fire starting to burn here on the subject of locking threads.
iv been on this board a long time and on average have only seen about one out of every 200 threads locked.
those who have their threads locked take it very personal, that's understandable.
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frenchbabyface
(((Seven))) Thanks