Yes, the Big wooden spoon, that was my mom. If we even moved an inch in our chair at the kingdumb hall, she would just show us the spoon as a warning. If we misbehaved, you better beleive we got it, and had the welts to prove it. My mother stopped using the hairbrush when she broke it on my sisters behind. Of course, my dad was the worst with the big thick leather belt. Of course if he couldnt find that, he would knock us over the head with his knuckles, or give us a good smack.
When i had my son, the few meetings i took him to, my mother litterally bullied me into taking him to the bathroom to spank him. It was horrible, that was the last time i went the the meeting, it felt so wrong. I mean, he was only 1 at the time, who makes a 1 year old sit for 2 hours, its ridiculous!!!
I am so glad that is over, i am stopping that cycle with my son, now at 3 years old he gets time out's and that seems to work just fine.
MonkeyPrincess.