Very moving replies on this thread!
It is probably one of the hardest things to comprehend...that our aging family would rather bury their heads in the sand than accept TRUTH.
When I calmly raised the topic of why we don't go to meetings, my elder father snapped back "I think this topic is over!" He then said "Son, I love you and would die for you" I cut him off and said "Dad, I call garbage on that, because Im not asking you to die for me, but rather to simply have a calm and rational conversation...but you wont do that. So that seems hypocritical"