Great thread!
Yes, lets illustrate it this way.
If your young child has severed his arm and it is hanging by a thread, do we sit and wait at home while he writhes in pain, just to see how long he can endure it. To see how he can build character?
Or do we immediately, with the greatest of urgency get him medical care, and ease the pain and repair the damage?
Jehovah likes to see how long people can endure it. Then he wants PRAISE for himself too.
And remember that everyday thousands of new babies are born...all of which need to live a life that will be full of pain. And Jehovah is cool with that.