Nice comment DoC!
Yes, I thought of a Convention Theme when I started this thread. haha...
i just wanted to share a quick thread to remind us all to never give up hope that our loved ones who are still mentally trapped in the org may one day wake up.. when i first starting waking up i never thought my wife would also awake.
i have always loved and respected her ability to think and reason, but i assumed that the hold of the organisation would always have its grip on her.. but slowly, and with patience, i shared some things i had learned, and the results have been amazing!.
my dear wife, who posts here under the name "unstuck" is so fully awake along with me.
Nice comment DoC!
Yes, I thought of a Convention Theme when I started this thread. haha...
the tittle is self explanitory.... first trip to vegas, anything i should do besides gamble?.
Keep most of your money locked away in a separate bank account.....and forget the pin number....
this took quite a while this evening.
so worth it though.
hope you enjoy!
Thanks for bumping this for the benefit of a "new Generation" of forum members...(sorry, I mean the same generation of overlapping members...)
we all know that the society claims that jesus invisibly chose the bible students (forerunners of jw) in 1919 to be his organization here on earth.. yet, as we know, so much of what they then taught and did was wrong according to current teaching and practice.. the reply witnesses will give is something like "they were the most sincere seekers of truth blah blah...and jesus could see their potential".
so, pretend for a moment that the current organization and the 1919 organization were both in concurrent existence at the time he invisibly came to choose.... which would he choose?
the current or former?.
We all know that the Society claims that Jesus invisibly chose the Bible Students (forerunners of JW) in 1919 to be his organization here on earth.
Yet, as we know, SO MUCH of what they then taught and did was wrong according to current teaching and practice.
The reply witnesses will give is something like "they were the most sincere seekers of truth blah blah...and Jesus could see their potential"
SO, pretend for a moment that the CURRENT organization and the 1919 organization were both in concurrent existence at the time he invisibly came to choose...
WHICH would he choose? The current or former?
The current has morphed into something very much like that which the former organization used to criticise, so who would Jesus choose?
i just wanted to share a quick thread to remind us all to never give up hope that our loved ones who are still mentally trapped in the org may one day wake up.. when i first starting waking up i never thought my wife would also awake.
i have always loved and respected her ability to think and reason, but i assumed that the hold of the organisation would always have its grip on her.. but slowly, and with patience, i shared some things i had learned, and the results have been amazing!.
my dear wife, who posts here under the name "unstuck" is so fully awake along with me.
Awww shucks Unstuck!
Lovely comments. Thankyou.
“there may be occasions when it would be good for us to reconsider a choice or decision.
it could be when the prevailing circumstances change.
jehovah altered his decision at times when circumstances changed.
Fantastic find doubtful1799!
Thanks for posting!
one thing over the years social media has made me painfully aware of is how many times i see someone use the phrase "i'll pray for you" and the outcome is bad.
recently a friend of mine who at one time was my manager where i worked got cancer.
a lot of people were praying for him.
fyi.
bbc panaroma tv - contaminated blood: the search for the truth.
10 may 2017. it has been called the worst treatment disaster in the history of the nhs.
Witnesses used to condemn the Panorama show for being "biased journalism" back when it exposed the child abuse issue amongst the society!
Now Witnesses will praise the show as being "enlightening proof".....
i've been thinking about the changes we make within ourselves after leaving the wts cult.
i'm not referring to how we spend our time now that we actually have some, but who we have become, or working to be?.
the gb carries on and on about "stripping off the old personality and putting on the new one.
Yes, contrary to what the GB try and tell everyone, nose who leave do not adopt a wicked, selfish personality.
We actually remain the same honest hearted and kind person, BUT with a more rounded out and less self-focussed view of everything.
We now don't revel in the idea of seeing billions of people killed (including babies) just because of an accident of birth, or because they don't accept magazines from door knocking witnesses!
We actually see that life is not something that needs to "be endured" , but rather ENJOYED!
i just wanted to share a quick thread to remind us all to never give up hope that our loved ones who are still mentally trapped in the org may one day wake up.. when i first starting waking up i never thought my wife would also awake.
i have always loved and respected her ability to think and reason, but i assumed that the hold of the organisation would always have its grip on her.. but slowly, and with patience, i shared some things i had learned, and the results have been amazing!.
my dear wife, who posts here under the name "unstuck" is so fully awake along with me.
Thanks for your lovely replies everyone!
I learned so much from everyone here over the years, and one point especially stood out:
If we want our loved ones to wake up, we need to casually bring in alternative fun activities to our lives. They need to see that life can be full, rich and enjoyable outside of the witness bubble. They need to expand from their narrow witness-mindset view of the world.
Slowly suggest doing something fun on a Sunday morning that breaks the routine. Go for a nice breakfast somewhere, a nice drive or walk....
Gently challenge the biased thinking styles and viewpoints ....
Dont force things....