Well, if they were really following Jesus example, no one would get baptized till they were 29!!!
and if you aren't old enough to get married, you aren't old enough to get baptized!
my daughter's step child is getting baptized at the ripe old age of 12.. my sil is angry and i feel he should try and stop it through the courts, but they feel that would make his ex more determined for baptism to go ahead.. this child has no idea of the mistake they are making .
would she get married at 12?.
it is so sad and irresponsible for a child to take this step.. .
Well, if they were really following Jesus example, no one would get baptized till they were 29!!!
and if you aren't old enough to get married, you aren't old enough to get baptized!
Chills ran up an down my spine when I watched this movie.
Yes...reminds me of the JW's.............hugely
since i have been out, i am still amazed when i find someone who is no longer a jw.
the funny thing is, i am always amazed at how many people it is just a casual fact about their past that they don't think anything of.
the more and more i think about it, the more i realize that most people were just able to blow it off, and then there are a few of us who it actually left deep marks on us.
Welcome
I was raised as JW too... left 35 years later due to the Dateline exposure on JW's and pedophile coverups.
It takes a while to fully recover from the "spiritual abuse"........especially when you have family that are still JW's.
Thanks for sharing your story... this is a great place for healing.
Codeblue
i thought i was pretty much immune to any jws being able to tug at my heartstrings anymore.. mr scully and i were out shopping this morning, when someone called my name and then grabbed me and gave me a big hug.
i hadn't seen her in over 15 years.
back then, she was a teenager and i was about 10 years older than her... but we hit it off really well and mr scully and i became really good friends with her and her parents.
(((Scully))) So sorry...
I totally understand....I encountered the same problem on a visit last week. I visited some JW friends (nice people) and with my son (still in the JWs)...
It hurts like hell.
what do you do when the dubs show up on your doorstep?
i have an arsenal of options depending on the person.
i keep all my old copies of gay times and attitude (gay mag) and i do a swap... i use the "i'll read about your lifestyle if you read about mine!
I don't answer my door. Only invited guests are allowed in my home.
i was raised "in the faith" for most of my life.
my mother married an elder when i was 1 1/2 years old.
he came from a family of pedophiles (also jw's) and i was a pet project.
Welcome Freegirl
Your "life story" must have been quite difficult to type. I couldn't imagine going thru all the things you have endured.
Shame on the JW's for not showing the true Christian love you needed all thru your life!!!
I could feel a lot of pain with your words and I am truly sorry for that pain that didn't have to happen. It's bad enough to have physical illness, and then be sexually assualted then the spiritual abuse on top of it all....Shame on them again!!!
Many hugs to you....This board is a great place to heal spiritually.
Codeblue
her first post was here;.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/121897/3.ashx.
not pertinent to the sunject at hand - so i assume she did not know how to begin a thread maybe.
Welcome Noniya
happy 18th birthday karl.
you're like the son i avoided having .
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Happy Birthday
hey everyone,.
codeblue is needing some major cheering up.
she's been hit very hard by some very difficult news recently, and i know it's been very hard for her these days.
Thank you all for you kind, loving words and support!!!
I didn't even see this thread till now....Bebu pm'd me with it.
I am sitting here pretty speechless that all of you are so encouraging...Thank you all so much!!! What a nice way of waking up this morning!!! So much positive energy!!! I am feeling life right now.
I am sure, I will keep re-reading this thread when the "funk" hits me again. Just knowing the support from ones you have met and ones you have met in print only is AMAZING!!!
Thank you Bebu for this thread...you are a sweetie and one that truly thinks so much of how to help others...I am so glad I met you!
Much hugs and love to all of you
Codeblue
hey folks,.
for those of you who dont know, i sent my jw friend a letter " http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/10/121182/1.ashx " after about 3 weeks, i got his reply in my inbox.
i was pretty excited to read it, but only was i disappointed with some of the things he said, and ill explain that after you read it, so here it is: .
Sorry for the response you got.(those kind of responses make me sick as well)..he is drilled with the JW thinking...his rose colored glasses are on firmly!!!
Rest assured, one day when those glasses crack....he will think of you and may need your help!