Big thumbs this morning Steve , sorry. Was aiming for Like before even first cup of coffee.
So many issues brought to light. Ensuring change is a whole other matter,
http://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/2015/08/04/jehovahs-witnesses-change-abuse-rules.
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jws in australia agrees to change procedures in regards to reporting abuse..
Big thumbs this morning Steve , sorry. Was aiming for Like before even first cup of coffee.
So many issues brought to light. Ensuring change is a whole other matter,
firstly, thank you to anyone who is in support of this rc.
no one has shown anything but great interest and empathy for those who were abused.. i don't know who this simonsays character is though and i find him to be very rude and ignorant.
it takes all kinds to make the world go round i suppose.. today i was contacted by a staff member of the royal commission.
"That they are sending two commissioners over, actually flying them over is in itself amazing!. They told me they rent a space in one of the hotels in the city of Perth and will take me in the back way to make sure no one gets the chance to identify me or the others."
First of all, I congratulate you on taking this progressive stand for yourself and for others. I do wonder that you mentioned others..... Are others from your area also coming forward? Are you arranging this or also know these victims or is the Commission putting this together?
I feel emboldened by your stand. At the same time, I am sorry you have suffered to be in this position. Perhaps you can get assistance in pursuing financial reco urse. Might not be a bad idea and you may be able to find strngth to pursue it with support.
((hug)) and peace
Yes, thought good point Angus asked if specifically the archaic two-witness rule could be changed... Do they refuse to budge on what is clearly illogical, harmful rule? They need to find a chink so the can work at making a bigger whole through the cloud of obfuscation and stubborn short-sitedness.
i've thought and said too much to ever gain jehovahs forgiveness and love if i want to be a christian again.
i made a topic on my unforgivable sin and blaspemy of the holy spirit.. i feel saddness everyday having no relationship with god, no religion and fear of the afterlife.
even when i was kid i feared death and the end of the world.
Dear 060...
Breathe deep. Parent yourself....prepare good meals, keep clean, get exercise, seek happy association - charity work or Meetup groups...
Remember, God never forgets the good that you have done. You are allowed to take time to heal. Write out your feelings. Read self help books and positive, motivating stories.
I have been in some dark places since fading but am feeling so much better a year later. Yiur efforts to help yourself will be rewarded I am certain.
Remember, no one really knows what happens when we die. If we take Proverbs, it will be like a deep sleep....if you take JW route, all will be resurrected, even unrighteous.
Be the best you and try to keep it positive. Try to think of 3 things you are thankful for everyday when you wake up. Write them down.
Work on your vision for your future. Where do you want to be 3 years from now...5? How do you want your life to improve? Start walking toward the vision now. That is what I am doing while coming here to help me with moments of anger, angst and curiosity.
Thank you so much Lee Elder for link. I've totally been going through this overlast 12 months. So thankful for progress made.
Peace to you.
http://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/case-study/636f01a5-50db-4b59-a35e-a24ae07fb0ad/case-study-29,-july-2015,-sydney.
How can anyone justify this??? Probably right off the bunch but say rest is okay. I will never forget last time I met with devout JW friend who told me (after I explained Some of the issues I had), "even if they are wrong, they are right."
WHAT????
once a month about 15 to 20 elderly jw publishers would meet at the kingdom hall and one elder was assigned to set up the system so they could view jw broadcasting.
these publishers were long time pioneers, former elders, and long time publishers who know nothing about computers or the internet.
they are the last batch of those expecting the generation that saw 1914 or understood it--- to not die off.
i really enjoy hearing about other people's lives.
feeling a little lonely this evening so please tell me if you have plans for the summer months.
i may go to some outdoor theatre with my daughter who's home from uni; with a picnic and a bottle of wine.
interesting theory i thought on stephen lett.
if anything i would of thought tomo3 would of caused them more grief with his comments.. http://insidethewatchtower.com/governing-body/stephen-lett-dumped-from-governing-body/.
i hope everyone is having a good saturday.
i've visited this many times in the past month or so, joined yesterday and finally got the nerve to post!
needless to say, i'm super nervous, being new to this whole experience.
Welcome MarieK -
Good insights here. It will stretch you and sometimes may make you whince a bit . Sift what you need and what helps you. Reflections and critiques cannot hurt truth. The best advice I had was to take your time as you "peel the onion." The UN issue was my first big shock but I put it aside for years as I put aside doubts to "wait on Jehovah." Stumbled onto this forum after too much wierdness at KH sent me searching for help. It's been a year and a half since finding this site. Stopped reporting hours and all studies a year ago. Stopped attending since Memorial. Read Crisis of Conscience and working through In Search of Christian Freedom...also enjoy JWSurvey and John Cedars you Tube. My husband is supportive but not fully out. it is your journey so find the support you need. Group here is very supportive.
this photo can be found in the april 15 , study edition article titled:.
why disfellowshipping is a loving provision.
just by looking at this image we can see how quickly the barrier between the congregation and former member is put up, after the announcement that this sister is no longer one of jehovah's witneses.
I see all the angles mentioned. I also can read into the oicture that the humble book bag was like here spiritual comfort bag and visual cue that she isn't all bad....she will be trying. She styed for the whole meeting so she has strong character....and obviously needs a dose of humble pie.
she now loses the girl club....the intimacy of friendship, love and support. Is that a family member hugging the other female? Her mother or sister? Best friend? Notice no one feels bad or any sign of empathy to her. She made her bed and can wallow in it. Everyone turn your back and act fabulous and talk about where you'll meet up after meeting for dinner. Ignore the bad girl.
Still...... I still wonder...
If she did commit a serious sin....you can still show bad for the circumstances being what they are, act civility and with respect. At some point we all have to get over it and show encouragement.