Sometimes we need to accept their decisions and respect their right to live their lives. I bite my tongue when I talk to my mom.
I just try to leave religion out of our conversations.
It must be hard on your spouse also.
They are mourning you in their heart trying to find a way to wake you up. They think they will be blood guilty if they cant bring you back. They wonderv what they didnt do right.
Look in the mirror and you will see their despair on your face.
MissFit