I always observed the blatant hypocrisy, without putting it together, when pioneering.
My PP would always host lunch, supper, etc. for his students (EASY time).
Last year, a neighbour was coerced into attending a meeting. I was STUNNED at the love-bombing (I wanted to leave and eat lunch - 40 minutes is enough).
I then thought about the last non-family person baptized in our hall (with wife of my old PP), the attention she had received when studying, and the total opposite in the years since her baptism. She must be so confused (only attends 1 or 2 meetings a month now, but she's a breathing statistic - Booyah).
It is pathetically stupid.