I was never a JW, but I still have a hard time getting that "warm fuzzy" feeling about Christmas or Easter. They are both so commercialized, the religious meaning is kind of lost. And my family is so dysfunctional, it just is not a fun time.
I have good memories of Christmas when I was a kid. The funny thing is, most of them of are of spending time at my Grandma's house and she was a JW. She never gave us presents, and didn't decorate, but it was always so nice to see all my aunts, uncles, and cousins. She died 14 years ago, and the holidays just aren't fun anymore. I mostly miss all my fun relatives- they have either died or been sucked into the cult themselves and are much more rigid than my Grandma was about family get-togethers on holidays.
Birthdays are cool, though. I don't care much about mine, but I had a great time celebrating my son's first birthday. I don't think there's anything wrong with letting someone you love know you are happy they've been with you another year. And I don't need an occasion to buy him presents, I spoil him rotten all year long
kj