Hi, Carla!
I know you... it's me... Diana from Randy/Tishies board! Fancy seeing you over here!
I realize that you are looking for answers from people that are still in or freshly out, but I didn't want to high-jack your thread with my, "I KNOW YOU!" excitement, so I'll do my best at answering your questions...
Do any of you feel 'guilty' for getting someone 'in'? (in my case, when they came, they asked if husband "couldn't get out of the house without the wife knowing". Now if that is not a red flag what is ?
I never brought anyone "in". Most people haven't. Yes, I would feel guilty now if I had. Then... no.
If you didn't have any friends or family 'in', what would keep you? fear of the big A?
Nothing. I would have left. I did leave, but it was very painful. My mother is the only on in (thank goodness).
He claims jw's do not think of the rest of us a 'birdseed' ( I realize that is an old term) or that the rest of us are not 'worthy' of death, but literature says otherwise, what is current thought on us 'worldly' people? Even your own children?
I don't know what is current, but knowing them, we are still birdseed.
If it is the truth, why such fear at looking at anything not sactioned by the wt?
It's called "mind control". They say, "don't look"... they don't look.
Not very insightful, sorry. Bye! See you over at the little pond!