Posts by goingthruthemotions

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Need some input: Wife refuses to respect what I believe

by goingthruthemotions in

i had a rough time with my wife last week.

i guess i started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional.

( and the fight started).

goingthruthemotions

it is an itersesting relationship....we have been together for a very long time and most of it was as non witness..celebrating holidays and living life.

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Need some input: Wife refuses to respect what I believe

by goingthruthemotions in

i had a rough time with my wife last week.

i guess i started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional.

( and the fight started).

goingthruthemotions

I had a rough time with my wife last week. I guess I started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional. ( and the fight started)

I guess in reality this fight started because I don't agree with the shunning practice. she has a sister that is DA'd and she still talks with her...but she is in cognitive dissonance paradise. I guess trying to come to terms with this practice. showing me scripture why the WT DF's people.

I explained to her that the 1 corthians scripture list's reasons not to associate with a person, and DA'ing is not one of them. And my point of view is Jesus taught love and it is not for us to judge.

BTW: i told her to look up cognitive dissonance....she came back and said FUCK YOU!!!! (excuse my language) ( we say the F word freely sometimes)

She doesn't see it that way....as 90% of JW brainwashed people are taught to shun and run.

i told her that i don't want our boys to get baptized and that getting us started in the religion was a big mistake and i am sorry i did it because it may be the ultimate ruin of our marriage as so many other people experience from this cult!!!!!!

I told her that if she decided to get DF's or DA'd or her mind changed about the borg, that i would love her the same. and if the boy were to get baptized (Jesus Forbid) and something happened, I would not shun them. I told her i would take a bullet for each of them and my love is deeper than anything she could imagine for my family.

well anyways.....we made up after a couple of days. keep in mind she knows how i feel and that i love her and our boys more than the BORG.

we were at the store and she told me she loves me and i told her i love her. and she said but we still have issues to figure out.

and i said " well lets agree that we disagree on some topics and our marriage is most important. but she said we should be on the same page about what we believe. I said we are all individual human and deserve the right to believe what we want to believe without prejudice." and left it at that.

The BORG really has it's members messed up. B.I.T.E model mind control.

I FREAKING HATE THIS CULT!!!!!!!!!!!

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tough year

by GoUnion in

hello everyone just wanted to give a litte update on my leaving jws.

i was an active ms up till the beginning of this year and things were going pretty good up till now.

my wife is active and that has been tough but we were managing.. two months ago my older brother passed of a sudden heart attack.

goingthruthemotions

GoUnion: I am sorry for your situtation.

1. it is a sad state of affairs that a spouse will choose the BORG over a marriage.

2. Go see a counsellar, even if it is by yourself.

3. Take your time, because in reality....all you have is time.

4. Stay close to Jesus...he is the way, the truth and the light.

God bless you!!!!!!!

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My Relief

by Smart in

what a massive relief!

thank god i have just found this site the other day!

i don't know where to begin!

goingthruthemotions

Hi Smart,,,welcome to JWN.

Best Advice i could give you is to leave, don't look back.

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Consider the "outcome" when elders apply the two-witness "rule"

by AndersonsInfo in

jehovahs witnesses two-witness rule is applied by elders when a witness member accuses another member of a sin, even if that sin is a criminal act.

if there arent two witnesses to the accusation, it goes nowhere, including not being reported to the authorities.

and in the case of an allegation of child abuse, the accused is free to molest again.. watchtower attorney, jim mccabe, recently stated this about jehovahs witnesses two-witness rule which he described as a bible-based belief :.

goingthruthemotions

The Borg is a pedophiles dream......Those POS bastards. Castrate all of them.

I wish the BORG would just go away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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can you help?

by tezrichmond in

jw
friends

i need an access phone no.

& pin for a khconf telephone link to any congregation in uk?

i wanna sign in to one from time to time and get the low down.

goingthruthemotions

Like crazyguy said...keep coming here....you be more informed than the sheeple at yhe hall!

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THE CULT STRIKES AGAIN!!!

by DATA-DOG in

it's amazing what you perceive, once you know ttatt.

today's wt mind-control session was an amazing example of cult mind control techniques in action!!

the program was about hearing jeehoobies voice!

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Todays WT made my stomach sick......MIND control at it's best. and all the sheeple nodding there heads and praising the FDS. OMFG.....this shite is sooo old.

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I don't understand the psyche of JW

by bobld in

the majority have good jobs,drive newer vehicles,have nice homes,go on vacations.all in all they have the smarts.. however,rwhen it comes to their religion,they are dummer than a sack of hammers.they drive around in circles to get two hours of service time.they can't differentiate what the fds/gb say is from jehovah god,when in reality it is the stuff that comes out of a horses ass.what the horse eats(as it were food at the proper time from the gb) comes out of the horse as manure(shit sounds better) as a loving provision from jehovah.. .

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goingthruthemotions

what is there to understand? IMO the active JW who is blind to TTATT has an average I.Q. of 85.

They All suffer from Cognitive Dissonance

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Would you convert to a religion for love?

by new hope and happiness in

jw
friends

i am sure people convery to a religion to find peace and spiritual awakening.

i also bet many convert simply for love.

would you to assist " true love" if it required converting to a particular faith?.

goingthruthemotions

I did, when i meet my wife i was catholic, never really was a strong catholic. She was born in, but never go involved or baptized util much later in life when i though. hey I GOT a great idea...lets get more spiritual........I studied off and on for many many years. in 2008 i decided we needed spirtuality in our family. she would not explore the catholic church...so i was like ok....like i said i never believed the catholic church fully. i asked her

if she wanted to go to main stream christianity and she said no....i was like well lets check out the dubs. started another study and things were going ok. we got baptized a couple of years later, was made an MS a year later....I learned TTATT in Nov 2013 and from that point on I realized I joined a cult.

now, it is pure struggle to go to the meetings or on service . our older son thinks the JW's are full of it and our younger son is realizing it also. they both hate going to out in service and the meetings. i also don't push them either.

this cult has really strained my marriage, and ultimately it will be the destruction of it. I don't know how much longer I could take of it. and the worst part is....she is so asleep to TTATT.

JOINING THIS JW CULT WAS THE WORST MISTAKE I HAVE EVER MADE IN MY LIFE AND MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!! I HATE THIS F#CKING CULT....IT WILL BE THE RUIN OF MY MARRIAGE!!!!!

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Throw Out Your Blood Cards!

by Coded Logic in

ex-jehovah's witness bled to death after surgery .

in 2006, riddell signed a declaration that she did not want to be given blood during any medical procedure because of her jehovah's witness beliefs, even if healthcare providers believed that it was necessary to preserve her life.. she later stopped practising the religion but her brother told hill she maintained the declaration because she had researched the use of blood transfusions and made an informed decision not to receive any blood.. riddell opted for the surgery after being diagnosed with symptomatic gallstones, hill said.. parry met with riddell before the surgery but did not discuss receiving blood with her as he told hill the chances of someone bleeding during the surgery were less than one per cent.. that meant the surgery began at wairau hospital at 9am without parry knowing about the declaration, although his anaesthetist did.. it was originally supposed to be a keyhole only surgery, but parry made the decision to go to an open surgery as he could not access the gall bladder through the keyhole technique.. during the surgery there was a small amount of bleeding, which parry was unconcerned about.. the surgery finished at 11.15am and parry went away to perform another surgery.

during that time, riddell's blood pressure dropped and fluids increased.. the anaesthetist visited parry during his surgery and told him "we have a problem, she's bleeding.

goingthruthemotions

Still going thru the motions, but i destroyed mine and my kids cards long ago. F##k this cult!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My wife said she would not take a transfusion and to let her die......I told her she was selfish and then the argument started. she knows i am against the Borg and am going thru the motions.

I told her I love her more than the BORG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if she wants to die for the Borg, then let her!!!!!

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