goingthruthemotions

Joined

• started 122 topics
• posted 818 times   see topics posted on
• send a message

Posts by goingthruthemotions

• 
  53

  Need to vent: Wife just went in full cult mode, huge fight. she is so brainwashed

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the borg.

  i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted.

  she already knows how i feel, i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  thanks Sail and out4good4.....this truely is a battle. and i truely hate the ORG. 
• 
  53

  Need to vent: Wife just went in full cult mode, huge fight. she is so brainwashed

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the borg.

  i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted.

  she already knows how i feel, i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  you are right Blondie, I don't use those words to her or the kids. i am respectful...they only real thing i have told her is that my main issue is: i believe the Orginization uses mind control tactics...the B.I.T.E model i have never really tried to prove anything to her. 

  i did tell her last night the if she were born a mormon...she would believe whole heartedly that the WTBTS was wrong. she than said...well i am glad i born a witness. she could not get my point of reasoning. so i dropped it.

  Blondie, she says that i betrayed her....how? i still love Jehovah and Jesus with all my heart...i told her i respected what she believed. she said she was going to the elders....i told her i would not talk to them....that they don't have any authority over me and i don't owe them an explination. and if she did...i would not be nice to them. i told her i didn't want to talk about it. she is so blind to the WTBTS. 

  thanks Blondie
• 
  53

  Need to vent: Wife just went in full cult mode, huge fight. she is so brainwashed

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the borg.

  i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted.

  she already knows how i feel, i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  thanks kate and everyone...you all are the only ones who could truely understand this situation. 

  OMG.....it's such a trivail thing and yet it is being made huge.  i have always questioned her love

  for me. and now i know where her heart lies. she holds the elders and org way above me. yet i give unconditional love, i provide iam a good father.

  joining this cult was the worse mistake of my life....if i could turn back time!

  shalom
• 
  53

  Need to vent: Wife just went in full cult mode, huge fight. she is so brainwashed

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the borg.

  i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted.

  she already knows how i feel, i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  she won't reason...not even from her own source. it's not looking good. please pray for me...i need the strength. i talk to my counselor today. 

  right now i am taking it slow. but, i am pretty sure it's over. 

  thanks for everyones comments.....one day at a time is all i could do.

  joining this cult was the worse mistake of my life....if i could turn back time!

  shalom
• 
  53

  Need to vent: Wife just went in full cult mode, huge fight. she is so brainwashed

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the borg.

  i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted.

  she already knows how i feel, i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  Yet, they want Jehovah to destroy the people who are not witnesses? This truely sucks....i am beside myself. i talk with counselor tomorrow. I truely hate the watchtower orginization.
• 
  53

  Need to vent: Wife just went in full cult mode, huge fight. she is so brainwashed

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the borg.

  i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted.

  she already knows how i feel, i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  doesn't look promising....I all could think of is...i wish i would have never joined this cult 6 years ago. if i would have know it was going to destroy my family. 
• 
  53

  Need to vent: Wife just went in full cult mode, huge fight. she is so brainwashed

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the borg.

  i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted.

  she already knows how i feel, i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  out of the blue my wife started to ask me about my feeling about the BORG. i told her i didn't want to talk about it...she persisted. she already knows how i feel,  i told her that my biggest beef is that they use mind control, and yep she went in to how i was an apostate and how she doesn't want to be married to an apostate. I said yep, they don't use mind control. you are just saying things they want you to say. no mind control here. 

  well pretty much, it looks like the washtowel is taking down another family. she said well why did you join in the first place. i said, well if i would have know you were going to put the BORG over your family, i would have never joined.  

  i told her i thought we were getting spiritual about jesus and jehovah. not the BORG, there not part of the 3 fold cord.

  i truely hate that cult. 

  worse mistake i ever made was joining this cult.....if i could turn back time.

  thanks for listening....i have appt with my counselor tommorrow. Sad things is our kids heard it all...i talk with my older boy about it, he sees what that cult is doing to his family and hates them for it. both actaully feel that way.

  shalom
• 
  26

  Called on a DF'd person today.

  by kairos in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  wow, what a surprise that was!.

  i expected a warm welcome, as this was someone i have known for a very long time.. nope, uber disfellowshipped jw.

  totally caught me off guard.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  shana...how is your son doing? do you guys talk? did he get reinstated?

  god, i hate this cult...

  
  

  worse mistake of my life was joining this cult..if i coud turn back time!

  
  

  shalom
• 
  14

  Why a doubter/fader CANNOT participate in Family Worship/ How to get out it," WT Style."

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  family worship night is a boring, depressing, stifling, watchtarded indoctrination/brainwashing session.

  it never ends.

  like all things wt, there is no end in sight.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  freemindfade...i hear you...same with me and my wife. big fights when we study or go to the washtowel meeting.

  i told her that family study will only be done from the bible. . she is sooooooo blind and brainwashed. 

  she is smart when she is in authentic mode...but under cult mode....she is dumb has a rock.

  joining this cult was the worse mistake of my life...if i could turn back time.

  
  

  shalom

  
  
• 
  28

  A Mind at War

  by cappytan in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  right now, i feel like my mind is at war with itself.. on the one side is reason, logic.. on the other is tradition, hope and fear.. reason and logic are challenging life-long beliefs.

  they are telling me, "is this any more believable than the story of the lord of the rings?".

  certain doctrines of my belief system are crumbling.. my mind still wants to hold on to the belief in a creator, his son jesus and the bible.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  goingthruthemotions

  YOLO...why live like that....i am in the same situation, but time is running out and my issue will come to head. 

  it's funny you say the watchtower is like the lord of the rings. because it have often compared it to it in my mind. how funny LOL.

  don't let the war wage...there are more important things in life to worry about insignificant, mindcontrolling cults.

  if your wife truely loves you, she will follow. it's has simple has that!!!!! 

  start seeing a counselor...they are very helpful.

  joining this cult was the worse mistake of my life...if i could turn back time

  shalom