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  Talking to Jesus

  by Kiana in

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  2. beliefs

  hi.. do jehovah's witnesses talk to jesus?.

  thanks..

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  goingthruthemotions

  jw's have no clue who jesus is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  need input: why does my wife do this. when at the meeting she is always nodding her head in agreement

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.

  but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings.

  she doesn't go out in service often.

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  goingthruthemotions

  Sabin: i have to go on occasion...if you read my previous posts. i don't go because i want to...i go to the meeting for 2 reasons.

  1. to try and keep the peace with my wife.

  2. protect my children, whom are made to go by my wife. from preditors in the hall.

  but, i truely hate going....i so disgusting to go.
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  need input: why does my wife do this. when at the meeting she is always nodding her head in agreement

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.

  but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings.

  she doesn't go out in service often.

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  goingthruthemotions

  so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.

  but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings. she doesn't go out in service often. she doesn't study the bible. only the watchtower trash. she doesn't have reasoning ability. this action is just annoying has all F%&k.

  why does she do this.

  1. to show the elders and everyone around her that she agree's with whats being said?

  2.to show me she agree's with what being said?

  for those of you that did this when you were in. help me understand, why?
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  Hubby has been doing research on the internet!!!!

  by atacrossroads in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my husband was recently subjected to an intervention by his parents.

  i am apparently a danger to his spirituality.

  after i stopped attending meetings and went apostate hubby decided to resign as a ms to spend more time with me.

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  goingthruthemotions

  bravo!!!!!!!!!! i wish mine would go the same...things for me just keep getting worse and worse.
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  Scale of 1 to 10. How did/do you rate the meetings!

  by Truthexplorer in

  1. social
  2. humour

  1. boring as s***e 2. extremely boring 3. boring as hell 4. boring.

  5. slightly boring 6. not bad.

  7. fair.

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  goingthruthemotions

  0. a complete was of time!!!!!!!!!
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  Hilarious Whatsapp message received - FIRST day after Big D

  by cognitivedizzy in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  a hilarious stupid wa message is being circulated amongst jws in my area / country.. i had a hearty laugh at the ignorance and stupidity and brainwashed mentality, different people may express different emotions so you have been warned.

  day one after armageddon it seems ages since we last heard the gunshots and screams, today has been really quiet.

  the last few weeks have been sheer terror.

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  goingthruthemotions

  i could only read a few paragraphs before i started feeling disgusted.

  what a fairytale, BARF.

  i am sure through and through dubs who read this are in their glory and filled with something.

  disgusting.
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  Stranger in my own house, Since my wife and i don't talk much anymore nor sleep in the same bed. i feel like a stranger.

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  my wife is shunning me.

  she is always in cult mode, we don't talk anymore, we don't sleep in the same bed.

  i have been sleeping on the couch.

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  goingthruthemotions

  thank you everyone for you advice.

  i would like to say first that i am not spineless and I do stand up for myself.

  but, has i have gone through life...i find arguing to be a waste of time, especially with a dub.

  i also feel that each and every person has free will. she has free will to stay or not, to love or not.

  unfortunately i am the recieving end of this.

  i will not fight for someone who is not willing to fight for me. why?

  life is to short....many on here know this.

  there are 2 things i want right now in my life.

  1. to be happy

  2. to be cult free

  GTTM
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  Stranger in my own house, Since my wife and i don't talk much anymore nor sleep in the same bed. i feel like a stranger.

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  my wife is shunning me.

  she is always in cult mode, we don't talk anymore, we don't sleep in the same bed.

  i have been sleeping on the couch.

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  goingthruthemotions

  Sabin: you see the problem is this, she thinks because i started off really good and then grew cold. in her mind i let her down and jehovah down. no mention about jesus ( go figure) i guess he doesn't matter.

  she was brought up in the cult. left it before i even meet her. she grew up with all the damage that happen to the youth.

  she doesn't know how to cummunicate and lacks the ability to show love. always has been this way. looking back i believe this is a result of growing up in the cult. she also doesn't show emotion, nor does she think she has the problem.

  i blame it all on the cult.
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  My mom

  by cognac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was just talking to my mom a few weeks ago.

  she said, out of all her kids, i was the only one she didn't have to worry about as far as spirituality.

  i always took a stand for jehovah.. she told when all of her kids were little, she gave us the option of not eating birthday cakes in school.

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  goingthruthemotions

  HI Coginac, you did the right thing. it's best when they find out themselves. it's so awesome you stood your ground, maybe she will think and maybe she won't. but, it will be her not you doing it.

  i wish my wife was like you!!!!
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  Stranger in my own house, Since my wife and i don't talk much anymore nor sleep in the same bed. i feel like a stranger.

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  my wife is shunning me.

  she is always in cult mode, we don't talk anymore, we don't sleep in the same bed.

  i have been sleeping on the couch.

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  goingthruthemotions

  My wife is shunning me. she is always in cult mode, we don't talk anymore, we don't sleep in the same bed. i have been sleeping on the couch. when i get home from work, i go to another room and just get on my computer. our boys will come in and talk with me. she usually spends he time in our bedroom on her tablet. on the borg website. or studying magazines.

  Our sons see what is happening, this religion is tearing our family apart and she just doesn't care. i really don't know what she feels. maybe she is numb to the relationship now that i am viewed has an apostate. i just wish i could turn back time and never have gotten involved in this cult. Why did i ever do it???? why, why why !!!!!!
  

  things just are not going well and i just don't know what to do anymore. We have been together for 27 years, the last 7 years of which taken by this cult. and now it has taken my marriage. what do i do? just let it fall apart? i could never imagine my relationship going like this. I love her with all my heart!!!!!!!!!!!

  i just wish this cult would go away, i wish she would open her eyes and see how bad this cult is. i wish she could see how much more our family is than this cult. i wish upon a luck star....please grant my wish...please please please please please please .