Posts by goingthruthemotions

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Fruits of the Cult Tree

by Watchtower-Free in

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venting: My wife is in cult mode again! she tried to start a fight..

by goingthruthemotions in

so when i was at luch today, my wife was in full cult mode.

she started in on me about us not being able to hang with other witnesses and when i go to the meetings with her that i don't talk with nobody nor pay attention and act angry.

i told her that i don't want to fight and i have better things to do than argue.

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Carla, thanks for the advice....right now there is nothing.

I do appreciate the women on here who are open minded, free thinkers, reasonable......

but, i do believe it is easier for a woman to hold the reigns in a relationship than a man.....meaning,

if she says she doesn't want to go the meetings i am ok with it. if i say i don't want to go the meetings all hell breaks loose.

if a woman wants to leave the org....more than likely the man will to. if the man wants to leave the org...more than likely the marriage is over.

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venting: My wife is in cult mode again! she tried to start a fight..

by goingthruthemotions in

so when i was at luch today, my wife was in full cult mode.

she started in on me about us not being able to hang with other witnesses and when i go to the meetings with her that i don't talk with nobody nor pay attention and act angry.

i told her that i don't want to fight and i have better things to do than argue.

HI Blondie, no she has not be diagnosed by a psychiatrist. she insists that she doesn't have a problem....but i see the personality change. i sometimes don't know who i am going to get in the morning. but more often than not lately it is the cult personality.

she doesn't have friends in or out of the borg. it's not like i don't encourage her....but that is just the way she is. i do show our son's family love....but they see the fighting and what this cult has done to our family.

it is very sad. but when she is not in cult mode we have a great relationship.

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venting: My wife is in cult mode again! she tried to start a fight..

by goingthruthemotions in

so when i was at luch today, my wife was in full cult mode.

she started in on me about us not being able to hang with other witnesses and when i go to the meetings with her that i don't talk with nobody nor pay attention and act angry.

i told her that i don't want to fight and i have better things to do than argue.

goingthruthemotions

so when i was at luch today, my wife was in full cult mode. she started in on me about us not being able to hang with other witnesses and when i go to the meetings with her that i don't talk with nobody nor pay attention and act angry. I told her that i don't want to fight and i have better things to do than argue.

i told her that she gets into this religious mode and it distrupts the whole family environment. and that she becomes a different person.. she then said, when i got baptized i am a different person.

i told her, i wish i had the wife i married back. she said she is gone.

she has dissociative personality disorder....I truely dispise this cult...for taking my wife and my family.

Sometimes i wonder if it would not be better to get a divorce.

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Meetings Are Really Getting Fun

by OneFingerSalute in

so last night i got to have some more fun at the meeting.. the serve us indoctrination session was thirty minutes of interrogation and answers about the "these words must be on your heart" video.. question three was, "what scriptural formula leads to the best chance of success in raising children?

" then before any answers the conductor had deut.

6:6,7 read.

goingthruthemotions

LOL, i wish i was there to hear this...i would do a double take.

Just let me say that i hate this cult so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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They know something’s up.

by John Aquila in

we have the convention this weekend and many jw families are arriving.

one family that ive known for many years from new mexico stopped by to visit my mom.

hes been an elder since the 80s.

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i have a new hero and his name is

John Aquila. Great job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Priceless.

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As a Matter of Conscience, I Am Resigning from the Christian Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses

by Sail Away in

after listening to the hearings of the australian royal commission into institutional responses to child sexual abuse, i am no longer content to have simply walked away from the organization.

as a matter of conscience, i do not want my name linked with the organization in any way.

i know this letter has been posted previously, and i thank the author.

goingthruthemotions

yahooo....marked

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Fading and finding our REAL beliefs

by BeautifulMind in

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hey all.

i hope you are all having a good day.

just a quick update on our fade.

goingthruthemotions

WOW, i wish my wife would open her eyes! your husband is a very lucky man!!!!!!!!

move forward and don't look back.

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Do you believe Jehovah's Witnesses' Governing Body is the "faithful slave"?

by Marvin Shilmer in

this question is known to be posed by jws to other jws as an acid test of loyalty.

i'm not the first to notice what i'm about to point out and comment accordingly, but today i felt compelled to add a short article on my blog highlighting the new language that governing body member geoffrey jackson supplies as a response.

a person who honestly hesitates to respond with a robust "yes!

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NO! we are each and idividual the Faithful slave.....this is just a parable. nothing more, nothing less.

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I believe that the greater percentage of JWs-You Will Not Be Able to Help, no Matter What Facts You Show Them.

by John Aquila in

so i ran into this brother whom ive known for a while and the conversation led into me being invited to come back to the kingdom hall.

we talked for about an hour during which time i explained to him 607 being the wrong date and a lot of other stuff including the child abuse cases in australia.

but what i wanted to relate was the last few minutes of our conversation.

goingthruthemotions

it's as if an alcoholic says, i know all the dangers of drinking. but i enjoy it and if i want to die from drinking that is my choice.

but in reality they are selfish in the fact that just like an alcoholic, if they drink and drive they put other peoples lives at stake.

and if the JW keepS preaching lies, they put other peoples lives at stake and there family lives at stake.

this cult of a religion has done so much damage to my family life....it is poison just like alcohol!!!!!!!!!!