Posts by goingthruthemotions

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As Brooklyn Park Stalls, Fingers Point at Watchtower Corporation

by AMNESIANO in

http://mobile.nytimes.com/2016/01/01/nyregion/stalled-brooklyn-park-exposes-rift-with-religious-group.html?_r=1&referer=http://m.facebook.com.

amnesian.

captive 7/1972 - 2/2001.

goingthruthemotions

it just amazes me that people like wife can't see the Borg for what it is.

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January jw-tv broadcast with Lett

by bohm in

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lett is back with a vengance!.

* the last money-begging effort increased donations by 15% for two months; a letter by a 13 year old who donated is read out loud.

* since last may "so many good things have happened".

goingthruthemotions

Hey Mark, by any chance are you and Tony Morris the Turd related? you both have the same reasoning.

you sure would make a great GB member. they need extra help to plug the holes in Borgs sinking ship.

Better yet......SUYA

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Hello

by Lost and adrift in

.just plucking up the courage to introduce myself....living in ireland but from the uk originally.

..drifted away due to depression (from all things truth related lol and bereavements and my m.s husband cheating on me and leaving !!

) few years ago but they recently hunted me down (they contacted me the day my other half was diagnosed with cancer!

goingthruthemotions

Lost and adrift. i am bumping you because you deserve the love and unity from this site.

keep strong everyday....know that you are loved by many. know that your daughter and mother are not in

there right mental minds.

they will have to answer to Jesus for this.

shalom

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When does it end? My marriage is 90% great for the most part, except when it come to this cult

by goingthruthemotions in

i know marriage is tough and it takes work on both parts.

we have been together for 27 years.

the last eight have been involved with this cult.

goingthruthemotions

Hi Ding,

No i don't argue about the cult. in fact a couple of days ago she started saying something and i shut her down. i told her i will not go there and left it at that.

Man, i wish she would see it for herself. but, i have given up hope on this.

As far has saying anything negative, no...she will defend them at all costs. it is kind of sickening.

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When does it end? My marriage is 90% great for the most part, except when it come to this cult

by goingthruthemotions in

i know marriage is tough and it takes work on both parts.

we have been together for 27 years.

the last eight have been involved with this cult.

goingthruthemotions

Love the picture Nathan, usually when she goes into cult mode. i just tune her out, this lasts anywhere from 2 to 5 days.

the sad thing is those are days lost with her.

kairos... i do love my wife, i know we are in similar boats. like others on here are.

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When does it end? My marriage is 90% great for the most part, except when it come to this cult

by goingthruthemotions in

i know marriage is tough and it takes work on both parts.

we have been together for 27 years.

the last eight have been involved with this cult.

goingthruthemotions

yes, you are correct P.A....

the thing that bothers me the most is her inability to intellectually think for herself. the watchtower has taken away all this.

she cowers at the thought that the org is wrong....she will make up any excuse she could to defend them.

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When does it end? My marriage is 90% great for the most part, except when it come to this cult

by goingthruthemotions in

i know marriage is tough and it takes work on both parts.

we have been together for 27 years.

the last eight have been involved with this cult.

I know marriage is tough and it takes work on both parts. we have been together for 27 years. The last eight have been involved with this cult. i won't go into detail, i have written much about this mistake.

Tues and Sun are the meeting days. I hate and loath both these days, My wife knows that me and our son's don't want to go to the indoctrination sessions. and, there is always an unspoken tension. it sucks....the problem is also i feel that she doesn't want to go either, but her guilt is making her go.

i don't tell her anything and i will not discuss anything about religion with her.

so back to my question. When does it end?

Will she wake up? i doubt it

will we end up divorced? more than likely, i believe her guilt to follow this religion will overtake her and destroy us.

Our kids hate going, when will she start to shun them for not taking to the Borg? sooner than later, because it's only obvious they don't like it.

So how and when does it end? Sometimes i wish i could just leave her, so she could pursue and dive into this cult and find a person in the religion that will be just has dedicated to this cult as she is and live happily ever after.

and i find a woman who has nothing to do with this cult and live a normal life and live happily ever after.

i tell my kids never to get involved with a witness woman and never get involved with this religion.

but, i don't have to tell them much..because they are independent self thinks, something my wife is not.

thanks for letting me ramble, this religion just destroys everything in a family.

biggest mistake i ever made.

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I have doubts... can you help me??- A new idea

by HowTheBibleWasCreated in

i have been perplexed as to how to brung my wife out of jws and to exit the religion... but i had an idea last night.

i know that elders will legitimantly meet with brothers who have doubts and encourage them... not df them .. this is a sheperding call etc.. thus since my wife knows i have doubt s i could say: i want to have two brother over to discuss this ... she will agree.... of course i will hit these guys with biblical textual issues, an biology to where they are stunned and still ask... "so brothers... can you solve this conflict...?".

in this case they will not think of me as an apostate but may question their own beliefs... .

goingthruthemotions

Hello HTBWC, I am in the same boat has you. for me, i would not entertain this idea. like another poster said...all it takes is the stupid question about the GB and driving this boat.

for me....i really don't know what to do. i keep hoping something will cause her to open her eyes.

to me it's like this.

she says: i need to lose weight

i say: try exercising, try weight watchers.

she says: i will do it when i am good and ready.

yep, when she is ready to see it for what it is, if ever. then she will. i will just have to sit and wait or move on.

but believe me....she know 100% how i feel about the cult.

Merry Christmas.

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Does this make you feel good? Coz it makes me feel bad.....

by ScottyRex in

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i just watched this clip on youtube....i can't begin to say how it made me feel.

, i'm not sure who i am more annoyed about.

the bloke doing the commentry, the punk shouting at a serious and should be respectful religious event, or some of the youtube comments that follow.. and i find this so disrespectful.

goingthruthemotions

This is Tony Prime, he is a good guy. his actions are a result of how the Borg destroys lives!

How many real anit-JW on this site wishes they could do this? i give him cudos.

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How did you feel when you found out "the truth about the truth"?

by stuckinarut2 in

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so when you first found out specific facts about the organisation, how did you feel??.

the un membership.

the way 1914 was calculated from pyramid measurements.

goingthruthemotions

when i fully woke up, i realized that i was stuck and now had to find a way out. i am still trying to find the door to this hotel california.

i hope i am able to come out with my marriage in tack. baby steps i guess. i envy those whose partners woke up with them.

cheers