They take every other scripture out of context to support their little cult, why not this? It actually fits pretty well - David built a house for himself first, then was told not to bother with the temple. The GB are certainly focusing on building their own house in warwick and not worrying so much about anything else.
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Why are projects being shut down? Nu-light speculation....
by DATA-DOG ini went to the meeting last night.
to keep the peace for now, i guess.
anyway...... during the bible highlights, a newly appointed ms explained why construction is being curtailed in some areas.
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Meetings, Ministry and Modification of the Flesh
by slimboyfat insociology of the body is a popular topic for critical analysis.
i wonder if a general survey has been undertaken in relation to watchtower's exercise of authority over the bodies of adherents.
it occurs to me they exercise authority over the body in four main ways: appearance, private practice, public performance, and location.
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OneEyedJoe
No piercings other than the ears. Multiple ear piercings are frowned upon.
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Pranks to play in the hall...
by purrpurr inwhat pranks could you/would you/ have you played in the kingdom hall?.
i have never but here's two i've thought of, 1) replace the liquid soap with glue 2) smear nutella everywhere in the bathroom!.
what's yours?.
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OneEyedJoe
Only thing I ever did was throw away the magazines in the bathroom. During the memorial I tossed a couple bibles and a bible teach book while I was at it. For the last 6 months I was going to meetings I probably threw away between 30 and 60 magazines per month. -
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Watchtower Paralells Mormonism
by Saved_JW inafter leaving the watchtower i had a 2 year lapse where i was studying mormonism.
not because i believed it, but because my girlfriend at the time was one.
i took the time to attend ward meetings with her, attend after church activities, join my in-laws for "family home evening" i was pretty much immersed in the culture.
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My fade might well start today.
by StarTrekAngel inmany here whom have read my previous posts know more or less my situation.
wife is not hardcore but we still bump heads from time to time.
if it wasn't for this cult, and while it was not an issue, we had an almost perfect marriage.
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Oh I do believe she means it. But I am not fully convinced of is that she is considering all the consequences. She doesn't think there is going to be any outsider inflicted friction in our marriage. I tell her that people are going to start looking at her with pity and begin to act accordingly. She says she doesn't care. It would not be the first time she says she doesn't care of what others think of her... that is until she does.
One thing that my therapist (more subtly than I'm going to be) often points out is that it's not really that worthwhile worrying about the possible negative consequences in cases like this. You need out of this cult. You're going to get out of this cult. Your wife says she's ok with it. Get out of the cult and if there's problems that come up between you and your wife contrary to what she says, you'll deal with it. Expecting problems can sometimes create them, and since there's not much you can do about it until it comes up, best case you've just stressed yourself out for nothing.
Take it or leave it. While your situation is certainly unenviable and something that nobody should have to endure, it actually sounds like you've got a great chance of things working out pretty well. Your wife doesn't seem to be nearly as phobic and mind-controlled as many, which means there's a reasonable chance that merely showing her the way you may lead her out.
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Do I count my time for this?
by username inhttp://forums.digitalspy.co.uk/showthread.php?t=2101981.
on page four you will see the active witness, its unmistakable by the lack of any structure in this persons post.. my username is mebiscuit, i decided to reply to the active witness post ;) .
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There are plenty of points to discredit Jehovah's Witnesses than bringing up the possibility that their founder may have been a freemason.
This. At best, calling CTR a freemason is an ad hominem attack and doesn't really mean much anyway. So what if he started out that way - God could conceivably use anyone to accomplish his will if he so desires. And personally anytime I hear someone talking about freemasons I immediately stop listening. There's too many wingnuts that go on and on about all that stuff and even if that's a valid criticism here it gets lost in the noise.
On top of that, criticism of CTR is practically irrelevant to the modern JW. I wouldn't be surprised if many JWs don't even know who he is beyond recognizing the name. I honestly can't remember the last time he was mentioned at a meeting (I mean I've been out for 6 months, but before that it must've been 5 or more years gone by without hearing him mentioned) so it's just not something that's valuable to bother with in most cases. There are so many very real, very current issues that can be raised with the cult that it seems much more worthwhile to start with that than to worry about things so far in the past.
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Do I count my time for this?
by username inhttp://forums.digitalspy.co.uk/showthread.php?t=2101981.
on page four you will see the active witness, its unmistakable by the lack of any structure in this persons post.. my username is mebiscuit, i decided to reply to the active witness post ;) .
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Yeah, the way JWs are they'll see the thing about 10 hours and immediately write off everything you said.
I'd also have left out the freemason stuff and stick more to things that are easily and completely verifiable (i.e. UN membership, etc) since anything that can't be verified (or sounds a little like a conspiracy-theory) will immediately be used to cast you as a liar in the mind of a JW.
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My fade might well start today.
by StarTrekAngel inmany here whom have read my previous posts know more or less my situation.
wife is not hardcore but we still bump heads from time to time.
if it wasn't for this cult, and while it was not an issue, we had an almost perfect marriage.
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So sorry it's going this way for you. Especially with kids in the mix, it's tough.
You can help your daughters to learn to question things, and you'll probably have better luck with that if you're out of the cult. Maybe you can reach a compromise wherein they stay at home with you for half the meetings? That would probably be more than enough to help them see daylight and want out. Or maybe insist that it be their choice as they get to the age where they can decide for themselves.
Your situation may be, in some ways, too early for the couple's therapy to really be helpful. After you've left the cult maybe you can get her to go back to deal with whatever problems arise. That way you'll be working on "what is" rather than "what may be" and that's always a much more productive conversation.
Good luck to you. The good news is that your being out will give your children an anchor to be able to escape themselves. With most kids leaving the cult eventually, having one parent that's out increases the chances by a huge factor.
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Disaster Demonstration in Kingdom hall
by Newly Enlightened inhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwr9w_i02di.
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While this is ostensibly not about preparing for armageddon, I think most JWs connect this to the fear of armageddon that they have on some level. It serves to reinforce the fear under the guise of offering "practical reminders."
I believe another motive in pushing these parts is to encourage people to fill out the little "emergency contact" forms that the elders keep on file for everyone. Having never been an elder, I can't say for sure but my suspicion is that these forms are used for situations other than emergencies - i.e. to get people's address/phone number so they can harass them if they stop going to meetings or spy on them if someone makes an accusation that they're having a member of the opposite sex spend the night.
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How To Test a J.W.'s Loyalty/Stupidity
by The Searcher in"would you do absolutely anything which the governing body instructed you to do?
for example, sell your home and possessions, move in with another witness, and send all your money to the org?".
if 'no', they're showing that they will pick and choose which org directives they will follow.
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TS - that's a fair point. I was looking at this from the perspective of you trying to get someone out. I guess it depends on the person too, but in my experience using a tactic like this to try to get someone to think tends to lead them to shut down and you won't get anywhere.