Yeah your right, if I had it to do over again I would of stayed in and did a family study to help wake them up. But I got so pissed after what I learned concerning their blood doctrine I stopped going and have been on the spiritual outs with the family ever since. Learning ttatt is a very emotional process so one doesn't necessarily react the way one should.
I started to write a similar post, but didn't because I didn't want to rain on Terry's parade. This approach is really good for elders/pioneers or other super men who give the appearance of being super spiritual. For folks like me who never was all that into it, and never did the family study, it's useless. If I were to try to get my wife to do a family study and came in with any information that seemed to go contrary to the cult, she'd immediately snap into cult personality (this happens even if I so much as mention a scripture that conflicts with what they just said at a meeting).
But like I said, if you're an elder that's woken up, this seems like a really good start.