Well smiddy, This is the thing. We are both born ins. My wife was on of the classic good natured supporting sister. Proper stalwart sister without any malice in here heart & somehow she has managed to keep all of that whilest taking on board the facts that are around her. as for me, I love justice & fairness. I don't want to sound pompous but I hav always hated underhandedness & greed. I got to the point where I could no long take the injustice, the lies, the nepotism & on & on & on. I tried all I could not to get appointed but it happened (That is a massive story that will show any wonderers) But there I was. a ms & now seeing even more unchristian behaviour buy those that were in charge as it was but never said. Sorry for my ramble. & my spelling. I'm dyslexic. I own a business in the music business & am doing really well. I think it's because the music biz is full of all types believe me. Phats.
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Here's a link for any one interested https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/280954/hello-from-phats
Let me tell you. I've got a very funny tale to tel.
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I'll try & search out some old stuff if it's still archived.
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It would take to long but I can tel you I've got some proper corkers. This is totally true in everyday. It will really make you laugh. Phats.
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+ My views for what they're worth are untraceable under normal circumstance so no worries. Phats, out.
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I was hoping that this is somewhere I can truly be honest & completely free to be me & not have an agenda. Remember, I work in the biz with the most aberrant people on the planet. It's true. You do get the bests well but it's all extremes, that's for sure. Hah! anyway, whatever. I've learnt one hell of a lot over the last 22 years I've been doing this. Phats. BTW Phats is my alter ego. He's everything I truly feel in my heart but I can only express when there is no aulteria motive other that the full & unexpected fax of any mater. Anyway Peace to you all. Phats out.
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I can't seem to find to much of my history so I guess it got lost somewhere when the platform changed as this is the first time I've seen this design before. Phats.
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Thanks guys, Somehow I've managed to go from someone who is doing just what he is told. Whether it is legal or illegal "Holy War" I now do everything I want & live with the support of my lovely wife all the way. She is still very much a good hard working, self sacrificing witness as you could meat & I support her where ever I way. The thing is, I'm free & the Borg has been rendered powerless because I played them at there game. Sorry fore any spell oops. Can't be bothered to go through. sorry.
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Hi Everyone, Phats here. I haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing. Business is great with loads of work. (I'm in the music industry) have been for over 20 years. Anyway you are welcome to check my history here to get an idea of my experiences in the Org but I just wanted to catch up & see what's happened over the years. Would love to hear from people. Please. Thats out (for now)
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Did you AWAKEN from the JWs by yourself?
by cultBgone ini was thinking about how so many posters here on jwn are frustrated and frantic to help their loved ones get away from the brainwashing of jws, and how much advice is given about how to help family members and loved ones.
i considered my own leaving and that it was internal turmoil based on the teachings getting weirder and child abuse issues, to name just a few, and it made me wonder:.
did you self-awaken or were you assisted by the gentle proddings of a friend or family member?
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I held on for years thinking that in some way it was still the truth & the guys in charge were good honest people & it was just imperfect men that needed to be constantly forgiven & excuses made for there errors & personalities.
It was'nt until I was forced to see the total lack of love & honest care even to the point of there being no provision for genuine love that I finally started to see it for what I now believe it to be.....Totally man made with mans agendas & purposes.
After that it was a slippary slope to freedom.
Phats.