Officially? For the most part " Reflecting God's qualities of Love, Justice, Ect.
Personally? I feel most people and religions believe God to reflect their own worst qualities, IE: Pettyness, Judgementalness, Cruelty, and so on.
Personally, is it reasonable to believe the creator of the vast universe of BILLIONS of Gallaxies, has the time or intrest to spend all day WATCHING YOU individually? Does God have the spare time to Care about who you love? Does God Want to destroy you for not visiting him, and worshipping him/her the exact right way EVERY week?
WOULD ANY NORMAL ADJUSTED PARENT PUNISH/hurt THIER own or any CHILD OR GRANDCHILDREN for not WORSHIPPING him/her? What would we label a parent that did? Think about it. :)