I think EX-JWs have better manners.
They respect boundaries better.
They gossip less.
They become less judgemental.
Balaamsass2
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Manners and Respectfulness
by IWant2Know ini would like to know if there are any ex's or formers who still appreciate good manners and respectfulness?
but i hope this question isn't offensive to this forum.
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How Do Jehovah's Witnesses View Education?
by southyukon ini have a question about this article.. https://www.jw.org/en/jehovahs-witnesses/faq/jw-education-school/.
higher education can lead to moral and spiritual dangers.
a bible proverb says: "the shrewd one sees the danger and conceals himself.
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Balaamsass2
The latest "Flock" book for elders goes into this subject in detail. No priveledges. Removal of Elders whose CHILDREN even go to college. The GB seems to have doubled down.
I eventually went to college as an adult, attending classes on non-meeting nights and some weekends. I had to keep my mouth shut to do it. It was like I was having an affair... or smoking in the bathroom. lol.
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Quick builds
by moley inwhat was the standard of quick builds.
did they cut corners, ignore building regulations, were they unsafe .
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Balaamsass2
The local government building inspectors signed off on everyone I worked on. Most of the main workers were journeyman tradesmen and licensed contractors, so the work quality was not an issue.
Some strange money dealings were involved with the forced use of Watchtower seats, carpets, and wall-covering suppliers.
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2 Jehovah's Witness Elders give evidence in Court, others did not, will the 2 be punished for giving evidence?
by was a new boy in'man guilty of abuse — after silence from church members.
a jehovah’s witness has been found guilty of sexually abusing a teen over a number of years – after the silence of church members who refused to give evidence.'.
https://www.adelaidenow.com.au/subscribe/news/1/?sourcecode=aaweb_wre170_a_ggl&dest=https%3a%2f%2fwww.adelaidenow.com.au%2ftruecrimeaustralia%2fpolice-courts-sa%2fjehovahs-witness-found-guilty-of-unlawful-sexual-relationship-with-teen-after-silence-from-some-senior-members-who-refused-to-give-evidence%2fnews-story%2f6f8c4cee4023dfc5cb42a9b580213d70&memtype=anonymous&mode=premium&v21=groupa-segment-2-noscore.
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Balaamsass2
:( Blocked by a paywall.
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Doctrines and Bible Interpretations
by IWant2Know ini would like to know if ex's and formers who are not church christians, believe that many of jws' doctrines and bible interpretations are correct, or do you feel that they aren't?
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Balaamsass2
During my first year away from Watchtower I simply felt they were like the bad kings of Isreal or the Pharisees due to the general meanness, the Child abuse issues, the stance on lying about finances (theocratic strategy), and stealing from seniors (widows and orphans).
After 10 years of reading, I doubt the Bible is God's word. Abraham heard voices no one else did....saw things no one else saw.. heard "god," tell him to sacrifice his son. Today, he would be treated as a mental patient...not the founder of a religion.
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JW Restrictions on Children
by NotFormer inissues raised in this thread:.
https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/6496820625145856/non-jw-parent-dating-jw-who-wants-children.
i'm trying to list all the things jw children are not allowed to do, or are discouraged from doing.
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Balaamsass2
As a kid I wanted to be in band, learn to read music, and play an instrument. NOPE. "to much time, Christmas music, and bad worldly associations".
I wanted to join the Scouts, learn Karate, Fly fishing, and Scuba Diving. Big NO.
I wanted to go to the state college. NO.
But I HAD to carry the suicide card on me at all times (no blood card), publicly sit for the national anthem, and not salute the flag. (resulted in some beatings).
I couldn't attend dances, classmates' parties, date, or my prom.
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11/25/23 Daily Mail :"Former Jehovah's Witness lifts the lid on the brutal isolation he faced as a child
by Balaamsass2 ininteresting read.
while the daily news is not a high-brow paper, it does get a lot of views.
(i have known jw families this extreme towards children).
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Balaamsass2
Interesting read. While the Daily News is not a high-brow paper, it does get a LOT of views. (I have known JW families this extreme towards children)
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11/24/23 NBC NEWS:" Timekeepers no more, rank-and-file Jehovah’s Witnesses say goodbye to tracking proselytizing hours"
by Balaamsass2 injws in the news.
"timekeepers no more, rank-and-file jehovah’s witnesses say goodbye to tracking proselytizing hours" , "for the first time since 1920, leaders of the jehovah’s witnesses have removed the hours-reporting requirement for rank-and-file adherents.".
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/religion/timekeepers-no-rank-file-jehovahs-witnesses-say-goodbye-tracking-prose-rcna126582.
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Balaamsass2
JWs in the News. '
"Timekeepers no more, rank-and-file Jehovah’s Witnesses say goodbye to tracking proselytizing hours" , "For the first time since 1920, leaders of the Jehovah’s Witnesses have removed the hours-reporting requirement for rank-and-file adherents."
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Lawyers release survey on alleged Jehovah's Witness child abuse
by Tahoe ina team of lawyers has released the results of its survey on alleged child abuse by members of the jehovah's witnesses religious group in japan.. the team held a news conference in tokyo on monday.
it provides legal support to former members of the group as well as to children of its members.. the lawyers conducted the survey, following the publishing of the health and welfare ministry guidelines last year about child abuse related to parents' religious beliefs.
a total of 560 people responded.. the survey shows 81 percent of the respondents said they had cards indicating they desired to refuse blood transfusions.. the ministry's guidelines state that parents' refusal of medical treatments for children on religious grounds amounts to neglect --- a form of abuse.. the lawyers said investigations are necessary to find how many people died from refusing blood transfusions, and how many of them were children.. the survey also shows 92 percent of the respondents experienced whipping, 96 percent were banned from school activities, and 93 percent were forced to limit their human relations.. the lawyers said many of the children experienced physical and mental abuse, which afterward led to problems such as loneliness, sense of alienation and a lack of self-esteem.
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Balaamsass2
I remember as an Elder book and study conductor being instructed by HQ in a letter to annually check publisher's cards.
It was used as an ID at a few conventions to receive JW-only publications.
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anniversary of JFK assassination
by desbah inthis is for all the ex-jw's on that dreadful day..... do you remember where you were when jfk was shot in dallas, tx?
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Balaamsass2
I was sitting in class—3rd grade. The Principal put the news feed on the school intercom.
My dad a non JW, was glued to the TV. He loved Kennedy. A Guadalcanal WW2 vet he had the highest regard for ballsy PT boat crews. Very sad and upset.
Mom, a JW, said "It's just a sign of the times...the Russians did it! Armageddon is around the corner!" Not sad.