call me dense, but, are you a teen still living at home ? Im not sure why your mom said this to you if your an adult.
but still, does your mother have authority over you at this time? why oh why does she not have the inteligence and maturity to discuss this with her own child? has she given up her RIGHT to parent? she cant deal with this on her own?
does she understand that the elders are not there to be treated like the some secret service agents and shes thier informant? they are only there for spiritual help, not everyday nonsense. just dont go to the meeting, be busy or sick.
id not go to the meeting ever again. Id tell her thats the last straw, If my own mother rejects me critisizes me and belittles me and judges me, how does she think
God feels about her choice to treat her child like some criminal? that a sure sign of cult like behavior. shes lost her own mind.
why did she not simply ask you to explain?
my mother has already told me that I need to talk to the elders about my questions.
I said to her "mother, you are older than they are, so why cant you answer them? how many years have you been studying the bible and you cant tell me what YOU think it means?"
she changed the subject.