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  Question: Can't You Just Ignore A Judicial Committee?

  by Sorry in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  one thing i've never understood is judicial committees.

  yes, i understand it's held to see if elders should go through with the disfellowshipping process.

  but why give them all the power?

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  kairos

  Ignore them or DA, take your pick.

  Getting out is the key.
  A better life shortly follows.
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  The physical effects of Cognitive Dissonance

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  most of us here have gone through, or are going through the various stages "cognitive dissonance".. this is a term used to describe a situation where our minds, and hearts just know that something is "not quite right", and therefore we find ourselves in a muddle trying to reconcile the things we know with the things we are hearing or being told.... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/cognitive_dissonance.

  so just wondering, how many of you found yourselves (or still find yourselves) becoming phyiscally ill in some way during the time of fading?.

  i know that when i look back, for several years even before i was awake to the many issues and facts about the society, i would feel ill at assemblies or conventions.

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  kairos

  https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/288927/im-living-nausea

  I still feel the effects.
  Getting physically ill over the injustices in the WT are hard to bear.
  My wife loves the ORG.
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  Memorial observance screwery.

  by Darkknight757 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  had a thought about the memorial observance that is held at the kingdumb hall every year.

  there are a few youtube videos of people partaking of the bread and the wine and then making some grand speech before being escorted off the premises.

  instead of that, has anyone tried getting a group of buddies together and when receiving the bread or the wine, just eat or drink it all?

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  kairos

  I can think of all kinds of amazing things to do to unsuspecting JWs.
  I always come back to, 'why'?

  It's a wasting of time, the way I see it.
  

  Think back to how you would have reacted.
  I'd seen and heard many apostates before I'd awoken to TTATT.
  It had ZERO effect.

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  Not to say I won't do 'something' one day
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  November 1, 2016 TO ALL BODIES OF ELDERS Re: Using and Maintaining Kingdom Halls

  by wifibandit in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  november 1, 2016 to all bodies of elders re: using and maintaining kingdom halls.

  table of contents.

  ownership .........................................................................................pars.

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  kairos

  It's all fun and games until a still-in apostate starts broadcasting their own WI-FI hotspot from KH property.

  Which connection to choose,

  "JWs are a cult"
  "learn TTATT"
  "JWfacts.com"

  etc,
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  How do you prove the watchtower organisation is not genuine using recent evidence?

  by punkofnice in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  when i was a jobo, i would say that anything in jobo history, eg.

  miracle wheat, beth sarim et al (old light), wasn't worth considering as evidence that the wbt$ was a weirdo cult.. i think that's probably the jobo mindset now.. what would you show them from very recent lies teachings to encourage them to consider the possibility the wbt$ is a scam?.

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  kairos

  The Tony Morris 'tight pants' branch visit talk was pretty special...
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  Stephen Hawking predicts, "this pill will change humanity", breaking News today>

  by James Mixon in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  "we can now access 100% of the brain".

  forbes special editorial by jon stewart.......

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  kairos

  I liked the single season TV show 'Limitless'.
  Similar concept. Brain drug.
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  I found a list my Wife is makingof subjects i have told her about the BORG.

  by goingthruthemotions in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so me and my wife have not been on speaking terms for about 5 weeks, and when we do .

  talk…it is arguing about the jw cult and more of a barrage from me telling here all the stuff i have learned.

  i know i shouldn't do this....but, i get so freaking p.o ed aobut what this cult has done to my family.

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  kairos

  It's time to have a real serious talk with her.
  I've been there and it isn't easy.

  It's time to find out if she intends to stay is this marriage.

  Based on her answer, you'll know how to proceed.

  With a list like that, it appears you have told her everything there is to be told about TTATT. ( I did the same ) She heard everything and is processing it. What she is planning is what you need to get to the bottom of.
  
  Are you prepared to face DFing for apostasy and all that that entails?
  I was am am glad I made my stand. I wish I had done it earlier.

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  My wife and I are still together and are doing fairly well.
  I've been out for three years and DF'd for one. We had our 2th wedding anniversary this year and I have made a serious effort to quit the anti-JW talk. It's very difficult to do, but it does make for a much more peaceful home environment.

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  People talk about planting seeds.. We planted FARMS with our wives!
  See what grows, it may be nothing or she make awaken without notice.

  The more likely scenario is, 'she knows', but cannot face reality.
  Furious cognitive dissonance is too strong to overcome at the moment.

  Go easy and see what happens when you quit JW talk.
  

  ( Also, you should quit the meetings ASAP )
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  Answer these 25 questions to find out if you are in a cult or high control group

  by Faith after Deception in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  1) do your studies or training in the group seem to be endless?.

  2) did you have to give up things that you liked doing in order to be accepted into the group?

  music, places you used to go, clothes, family life, celebrations, etc.).

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  kairos

  This list could prove to be a very useful tool.

  thanks
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  Egyptian Kingdom died 4200 years ago following mega drought.

  by James Mixon in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  when was that flood?.

  what i don't understand is this, people who make these kinds of discovers still believe in the bible(flood).

  apparently egypt was destroyed in the flood and they forgot to mention it or folks were having a lot of babies and rebuiiled egypt in record time.

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  kairos

  I was always more of a, "the offspring of Noah re-discovered Egypt, learned 'how to do it' and continued where they left off, pre-flood", kind of guy.
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  Apologizing to my non-JW friends

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  yesterday i bumped into an old friend from my last workplace.

  he's a gay man and we were good friends along with a woman from the same office.

  although i was a jw at the time, i would go for the occasional after work drinks with them, blackpool funfair every year and the occasional cinema or theater.

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  kairos

  It's been my experience that ALL of my non-JW friends and family were supportive and considerate when I explained I was under cult mind control. My non-JW friends have been with me this whole time. The JWs were quick to discard me when I broke loyalty to WT.