Earnest,
Interesting indeed. Did he refer to that himself, or is it JW insiders' knowledge? (I understand from your post it is more than rumour) -- which might imply some interest from the JW community in his theories.
Goldensky,
I replied to your pm days ago! Check the envelope icon on the top right corner of the screen, and refresh the page if it doesn't appear right away (the current pm system doesn't work very well).
I believe it takes exactly a lifetime -- long or short -- to really come to terms with the prospect of dying. But even starting to think about it makes a difference. And this is exactly what dreams of everlasting life prevent you from doing.
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There is a social and political dimension to this issue as well as a purely private psychological one imo. The thought of aging and death is one of the most consistently avoided, and often forcefully repressed, in today's culture (from education to commercials). It doesn't cease to exist but becomes invisible, confined to secrecy and loneliness. It becomes shameful, to the point of not even arising to consciousness in some cases. Even aging people are pressured not to look old, not to think old, and never to speak about death, to behave in every way as if they should be living forever. They have to sound unchanged, intact, otherwise they get embarrassing to everyone (i.e., everyone's sense of unchanging identity and integrity).
Now I believe there is an obvious, simple, straightforward relationship between freedom and the acceptance of death. The more people have consciously integrated and embraced their mortality, the less carrots and sticks of all kinds work on them. The more dangerously free they are. On the other hand, a flock of "unique" and "irreplaceable" individuals who do not want to die, think they may not have to and depend on a medical, technical, social, economic, political system to postpone death or avoid it altogether would be very easy to control, and its individual members all the more alike and replaceable.