Chaserious -
The reference I made about damages was not in regard to being DFd while still in.
If you chose to stay stay IN - you get exactly what you deserve - thats the attitude of the law. You want to join a cult?- prepare for cult justice.
Now Tony Morris has told us that JWs are free to leave any time they want.
So we leave freely - without explaination, controversy or arguement. The only way to avoid those things is to not speak to the elders .
When we left we wrote a little document, signed it, dated it and had it notarized. You know- in case of Alzheimers, or hyenas or something.
Some of us still like to go to the hall because we have real, actual loved ones there. We like to see our grandkids give talks and bible readings -so we can talk to them later about why the bible contains such horrible,silly stories, and that with a good education their lives will be just great..
Soon, the elders notice how quiet we seem, and happy and contented - something is not right! So they approach to quetion, cajole, counsel but you tell them theres no need to worry about you because you´re only there to help the grandkids, give some hugs and toussel some hair.
But what about your dedication? they ask. You explain how you are 100% dedicated to your family now and thats why you come. you explain that strong loving families are the building block of your community and all human societies around the world.
What about the truth? they ask.
Did I say something that wasn't true? you ask.
We mean what about our WT/JW Industrial Armeggedon Complex? they ask again.
Oh, I quit that just like Tony said - you guys wanna go fishing on Saturday? I´m takin the kids here and little Brittany is comin too- I've got the snacks...
A sickening look of dread crosses the elders faces - you wink at your better half and head for the door
Might see you guys next week, unless we win the bowling on Thursday night...
You have now peacefuly left with the blessing of Tony Morris. You've done nothing wrong while in, you've done nothing illegal
The only detail that might remain is to draft that letter of demand that your name never be used in any announcements as it would violate your privacy and your brother-in-laws lawywer really hates that kind of stuff
But it may never come to that because thats human rights territory and the watchtower will only lose from here on in- they cannot be seen to be fighting against the human rights freedoms that civil society has fought so hard for. What would a win even look like in such a contest??