Nonnie, it is just a habit.
Your husband is an addict. He thinks he needs to get his fix.
That's all. Don't sweat it. Just remind him to quit chewing his nails.
my husband just realized that our trip out of town to see lots of extended family members is over the saturday of the memorial.
he looked all disappointed.
(in light of his recent behaviors this kind of surprised me).
Nonnie, it is just a habit.
Your husband is an addict. He thinks he needs to get his fix.
That's all. Don't sweat it. Just remind him to quit chewing his nails.
it seems that irwin zalkin has obtained undisclosed settlement in the case.
the $4000 a day fine then seems to be dead.
the downside?
Bobby: My bigger point is why JW’s still care. They care because the leadership cares.
BS. I disagree. They care because they care about themselves.
People care because they are wired to care....about their own future. The JWs have got their ticket to paradise clutched in their hot and sweaty hands and they aren't looking left or right. They don't care if the leadership cares. That has nothing to do with it and if you think that it does...I have a bridge for sale
This thread reminds me of a story I read about a serial killer in the Ukraine that converted to the JWs. From a blog entry titled Where do murderers, rapists and pedophiles come from among Jehovah's Witnesses? Analysis of one story:
For a long time in the territory of two districts of Donetsk, in the sewer wells, young women were killed. But not just killed, but dismembered. And not just dismembered, but torn to pieces. The characteristic features, the so-called "handwriting" of the killer, were everywhere the same. He was armed with some terrible maniac who possessed superhuman physical strength. Horror stuck residents of the districts.
The law enforcement agencies have gone astray. The best investigators of Ukraine were involved. And all is useless. The case was under the control of three agencies at once: Gen. Prosecutors, the Security Service and the Ministry of Internal Affairs of Ukraine. And - no clarification, no clues.
Then the murders stopped. And in late summer of 1993 a young man came to the militia and wrote a frank confession that he was this murderer. The shocked investigators, having studied his confession and understood how he acted, exclaimed: "Never in your life would any investigator have found you, and you understand this." Why did you come? "
Quite calmly, he said: "I became acquainted with the teachings of Jehovah's Witnesses, and I want to become one of them." As I should, I confessed my sins to the elder, and he does not allow me to be baptized. " The investigators asked: "Who is this elder?" And he - directly: "Adadurov!"
A day later, a minister who flown from Kiev shouted at the board of the Ministry of Internal Affairs: "Some priest did what the colonels and generals could not do! .." In the central newspapers a message appeared about this killer maniac under the characteristic headline: "Jehovah's Witnesses in Donetsk does not accept assassins in its ranks. "
In the history of the religious organization this was the second such case. The first was recorded in 1947, when a former Gestapo officer wanted to join Jehovah's Witnesses, wanted for his war crimes by an international tribunal. And in the first and second cases, the Spirit of God did not allow dangerous unrepentant criminals to enter the environment of believing people.
The question of the baptism of the Donetsk maniac was decided in Brooklyn, at the level of the president of the Society. At the international congress in Kiev, which was held in August 1993, I saw the then president of the Society, Milton Henschel. At the same congress, there was a former murderer who was waiting for him to be answered from the Governing Council, whether he would be admitted to baptism or not.
I was told briefly from the President of the Watchtower Society: "You can not take baptism, but how can you explain how to present it, given his personality, given his possible reaction - this is you yourself, keeping in mind that you can be in danger ..."
The very next day, the congress was to be baptized, and the previous evening I had a crucial conversation with the former killer. It should be said that before this conversation I prayed for a long time. Now, briefly, the very essence of the conversation, we can say that the conversation was structured like this: I asked: "Arthur! / Name changed / You remember that before baptism those who wish to be baptized are asked the question:" Have you repented of your sins? ". "Yes," replied Arthur, "Do you understand what the word" repented "means? Arthur looked intently into my eyes, and I continued: "To repent means to deeply regret what was done, but not only that, repentance also implies compensation for damage, for example, someone robbed someone and then repented. it will show? That will return the stolen and will compensate the damage.Or, say, someone has offended someone.How will he show that he has repented? The fact that - will apologize, smooth out the problem ... Do you agree? "" I agree, "replied Arthur." And how can I repent before the one I killed? But there are also relatives of the dead, who suffered enormous, irreparable damage. How can we repent before them? "
There was a hard pause. I did not hurry him. After a rather long time Arthur asked: "And if I surrender to the police?"
"Arthur," I answered, "whatever decision you make, it will be your personal decision." None of the brothers, and the entire religious organization as a whole, can tell you what to do. You yourself must do what you think is necessary in your position. As for the police, it sometimes corresponds to what the Scripture says: "God's servant, does not wear a sword in vain ..." God can use it to protect the lives of citizens, and to take revenge on criminals.
"In order to go to the police with confession," I continued, "you will need a great faith in God, that He can save your life now, or that He will raise you from the dead, since, after all, , there is no guarantee that you will not be sentenced to capital punishment. But, if you made the decision to go to the police, and did it, from that day there would be no obstacles to your baptism, for you would indeed show that you repented. You would have acquired peace with God, you would have entered into the number of God's people, but, alas, this would not relieve you of responsibility for what was done under human laws. Remember the condemned robber. He did not descend from the cross after he believed in Jesus. Although he received an absolute guarantee that he would be in paradise, but for his past misdeeds, he responded to the law of Caesar. The question is different:
Again there was a hard pause, after which Arthur began to say that he really became a believer, that God is for him a real, real person, that he prays to God regularly, that he believes that even if he is sentenced to the highest degree , he will surely rise from the dead in God's Kingdom. "It's settled," said Arthur, "we come home, and I go to the police with confession, I myself thought that we must confess to the police, but I wanted to do this after the baptism, but if so, so be it ..."
After parting, Arthur said: "Brother Anatoly, I know your prayers God hears Let's pray together Pray for me right now ..." And tears welled in his eyes. And on my - too ... And we bowed our heads in prayer.
... He was not sentenced to capital punishment. He was not condemned at all. Three times psychiatric examination was appointed, and three times it was the same conclusion that, at the moment, he is a perfectly healthy, normal person, but then, at the time of committing crimes, he was insane. Based on this conclusion, the court dismissed the charges and sent him for treatment. He received baptism in prison.The brothers took care of this, and the prison administration went to meet them.
Later, one of the expert psychiatrists, in a conversation with my service assistant, said about Arthur: "He would not have had a chance to escape the capital punishment (then it was a shooting)." We saved his life only because we were convinced that he really became a believer, a Christian, meek like a lamb, yes, your religion does real miracles ... "
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The blog's author - who re-printed this story from a book written by a former(?) JW - continues with commentary about this event. Follow the link to read full commentary. He ends his comments with this (google translated from Russian):
And more: you noticed how cleverly presented here that it is important that this killer himself went and confessed. Is not it strange? CAM. No, the SI organization and the "elders" who learned about the murders did not want to report it. They are a socially-safe and socially useful organization. And all their teachings and "guidelines" are exclusively "useful" to society. And this here is an organization that has for every sneeze and a bunch for its members a huge amount of detailed instructions and prohibitions, directions and "principles" - it's somehow abruptly washing its hands. Only to be baptized did not allow.But then, when the "danger", that the covering will come up, still solved it. And the newly appeared "Lamb of God" came into the "God's flock" of Jehovah's Witnesses. Moreover, the organization, which collects its courts (judicial committees), even over the fact that someone smokes or watches porn, it just does not react. Nobody made suggestions to Adadurov that he behaves like a psycho in general and does not understand what he is doing at all.
And the last thing: this organization, according to the letters to the elders, constantly gets into places of confinement to recruit new ones to their cult (according to instructions from Brooklyn letters). But now the question of filling: how do you think, after liberation, these former and "re-educated" SI criminals - where will they go? Of course, they will go to you, to the meetings. On the rights of "brothers" or "sisters." And you even often do not know anything about their past because of the "confidentiality" in the cult. So take care of yourself and your children.
it just took me by surprise.
i remember him from a decade or so ago.
he came up with gems like, “weddings are for women, they are not necessary.” also, “if you want to be truly happy, marry an ugly woman.”.
Best life ever
i have yet to read about the contradictions in the jw teachings on blood, but i have personally witnessed one.
i am a medical professional and have seen hemopure administered for an active jw who did refuse a blood transfusion.
its not fda approved here, but given in special life saving circumstances.
Vidiot: Seriously though, this just demonstrates the real reason most JWs toe the transfusion line... they're not overly concerned with what the Bible says about the subject, or even the safety issues.
They're simply too scared of being found out and punished by the Org for maybe treading close to the line.
They don't want to think about it. They just want to do whatever they are told to do so that they get their ticket to paradise.
It doesn't take much thinking, though, to find the glaring discrepancies in the Org's approval of Hemopure and other HBOC's.
One of the procedures that is on the org's banned list is autologous blood transfusions - where the patient pre-donates their own blood for use in planned surgeries. The reason that is given as to why this is unacceptable is that "blood is to be poured on the ground". It is not to be stored.
And one of the procedures that has been acceptable for decades is cardiopulmonary bypass (heart and lung machine) but the WTS/org has been a big deal about how the lines carrying the blood are to be uninterrupted and connected to the patient at all times. Apparently, this is to ensure that the blood isn't stored. That it is a continuous circuit. Why? To adhere to the prohibition against storing blood.
And along comes Hemopure. Animal blood. Collected from herds of donor cows. Drained from dead carcasses, put in containers, cooled, and then processed.
Stored animal blood. Gets the green light.
How much thinking does it take to know that the blood doctrine isn't isn't based on the Bible at all?
somebody posted the contract on exjwreddit: https://i.redd.it/1u8808gy6ni01.jpg.
it appears to be signed by howie ernest rutledge.
im assuming this is howie rutledge tran, former assistant to the gb?.
I am curious about point "6" in the vow
6. To turn over to the local organization of the Order all income received from any work or personal efforts in excess of my necessary living expenses, unless released from this vow by the Order;
My question: would this include any income derived from an inheritance?
Howie: This was the new "Vow of Obedience and Poverty" that we had to sign in 2002 (I don't remember signing one before this one and I had been at Bethel since 1995, so already 7 years in when I was required to sign this one).
Would this new 'vow of poverty' have anything to do with the restructuring that occurred in 2000(1?) when the WTS cut loose the "Christian Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses? It seems as though it was then that the CCJW structured itself into a 'mainstream' religion, likely to take advantage of being a 'religion' under the charity tax laws
i have yet to read about the contradictions in the jw teachings on blood, but i have personally witnessed one.
i am a medical professional and have seen hemopure administered for an active jw who did refuse a blood transfusion.
its not fda approved here, but given in special life saving circumstances.
Oh, I get what you are saying now, Crazyguy. Yes, the org okays hemoglobin. There is no disputing that. Hemoglobin is red blood cells.
The contradiction exists between the WT/Org policy and the scriptures that they say they base their blood ban on.
i have yet to read about the contradictions in the jw teachings on blood, but i have personally witnessed one.
i am a medical professional and have seen hemopure administered for an active jw who did refuse a blood transfusion.
its not fda approved here, but given in special life saving circumstances.
crazyguy: Actually a JW can have human hemoglobin.
There is no contradiction on this point about their blood policy.
Please explain how this is "no contradiction"
From my research the human hemoglobin for some reason is less effective then the product Hemopure.
Again, please explain. More detail needed. Do you mean the blood substitute made from expired human blood, or do you mean human blood, as commonly used in blood transfusions when red blood cells are needed?
The FDA stopped human trials of hemopure because it did not work as well as human blood and because there were too many fatalities and associated health risks
i have yet to read about the contradictions in the jw teachings on blood, but i have personally witnessed one.
i am a medical professional and have seen hemopure administered for an active jw who did refuse a blood transfusion.
its not fda approved here, but given in special life saving circumstances.
sir82: You'll be waiting a good long time if you hope to hear a connection between "logic" and "JW policy & beliefs".
Actually, anytime I have looked for some sort of connection, I always found it in the $$$ to be made.
i have yet to read about the contradictions in the jw teachings on blood, but i have personally witnessed one.
i am a medical professional and have seen hemopure administered for an active jw who did refuse a blood transfusion.
its not fda approved here, but given in special life saving circumstances.
You are welcome, Steve.
a topic that is not often heard in ex-JW circles
I don't know why it isn't heard more often.
How much more can it be in a person's face that the Org/WTS has lied about the "blood ban"? Not only is the Hemopure "approval" in direct contradiction to the scriptural basis for the ban, but it isn't too difficult to unearth the connection between Hemopure and the US military (and don't forget about STORMACT).
The Org/WTS prohibits a JW from wearing a military uniform, but the Org itself (through the Hospital Information Services and their HLC squad) arranges for a JW to wear a hospital gown in "service to their country".
I don't get it. How did this happen? Why is it okay for the WTS to collaborate with the military when it comes to blood, but JWs go to jail when they refuse to serve? Do JWs who die after getting a transfusion of cow's blood, get taken to the morgue with an American flag draped over them?