Just a t-shirt???!!!!
Don't you ever change change into fresh clothes?
i'm in training for Glastonbury
It's only the English that pay for the priviledge of spending a break living in less confort than their home...
'tis a beautiful time of year, folks.
i'm thinking of alan f and julie who visited us in december during a particularly wet and chilly winter.
anyway, here's the cultural bit:.
Just a t-shirt???!!!!
Don't you ever change change into fresh clothes?
i'm in training for Glastonbury
It's only the English that pay for the priviledge of spending a break living in less confort than their home...
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THE 2004 MARTELL COGNAC GRAND NATIONAL
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'tis a beautiful time of year, folks.
i'm thinking of alan f and julie who visited us in december during a particularly wet and chilly winter.
anyway, here's the cultural bit:.
I've been in a t shirt for the past three days Ball...but I think that's my lot til next year
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decided on the spur of the moment to try and get some glastonbury tickets yesterday,as there were still 55, 000 left due to the system cock ups... had friends who stayed up til 5am trying on the friday night but none of us had any luck, mind you, with two teenagers and a child it's the equivilent of a small mortgage...did anyone here have any joy?
i've just had a phone call this morning to say i had sunday tickets , the ones you can get if you live in somerset...ive got a phone number if anyone want to try it... so; if anyone wants to meet up to have a shamanistic dance or two, share moment in the tipi field or help me negociate the toilet block..... i'll be around...
Thats nearly as good Ball.......
im going to go for Blowing wind....he was 2nd last year...i'll keep an eye out for yours in the race .....mine usually fall and kill the jockey at the first fence mind you. so that's not a tip...
'tis a beautiful time of year, folks.
i'm thinking of alan f and julie who visited us in december during a particularly wet and chilly winter.
anyway, here's the cultural bit:.
Yesterday I would have agreed with you Mike... but i'm supposed to be laying my new lawn today and the sun's just disappeared and it's now pouring aaaaagggghhhhhhh
Actually the sun's back and the rain's stopped lol
Beautiful yes, but infuriating.
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decided on the spur of the moment to try and get some glastonbury tickets yesterday,as there were still 55, 000 left due to the system cock ups... had friends who stayed up til 5am trying on the friday night but none of us had any luck, mind you, with two teenagers and a child it's the equivilent of a small mortgage...did anyone here have any joy?
i've just had a phone call this morning to say i had sunday tickets , the ones you can get if you live in somerset...ive got a phone number if anyone want to try it... so; if anyone wants to meet up to have a shamanistic dance or two, share moment in the tipi field or help me negociate the toilet block..... i'll be around...
Decided on the spur of the moment to try and get some Glastonbury tickets yesterday,as there were still 55, 000 left due to the system cock ups... had friends who stayed up til 5am trying on the friday night but none of us had any luck, mind you, with two teenagers and a child it's the equivilent of a small mortgage...Did anyone here have any joy? I've just had a phone call this morning to say I had Sunday tickets , the ones you can get if you live in Somerset...ive got a phone number if anyone want to try it..
so; if anyone wants to meet up to have a shamanistic dance or two, share moment in the tipi field or help me negociate the toilet block..... i'll be around...
hi guys.
last week i was involed in a very distressing situation, going with a family to identify their mother who had commited suicide.. we are waiting for the coroner to release the body for the funneral.. but, so far this year a number of jw have commited suicide in england,why???.
can any one throw a light why so many jw of good standing commit suicide,.
I think the question was 'Why is there a high rate of suicide among Jehovahs Witness'? and the answers are trying to offer some explaination for that 'fact'...rather than provide stats..
I would have thought that on one hand the incidence would have been lower, due to the society's view that once suicide is comitted there would'nt be any redemption and out offear of displeasing 'him' and being seen as spiritually 'weak'...
but on the other hand, having the added pressures of living to such an unattainable standard, especially if you're a perfectionist, compounded with personnal problems and possibly not being 'allowed' to receive councelling or professional comfort, could drive JW'S to live in turmoil to such an extent that th relief of suicide is worth the loss of their 'eternal life'.
hi guys.
last week i was involed in a very distressing situation, going with a family to identify their mother who had commited suicide.. we are waiting for the coroner to release the body for the funneral.. but, so far this year a number of jw have commited suicide in england,why???.
can any one throw a light why so many jw of good standing commit suicide,.
And you know,,,,,,,,for along time I felt such guilt that I wasnt there to take care of my mom like I always had. I told myself for years, if only I would have went to her that night, as I always did on the phone to check on her,,,,,maybe I could have saved her. I was out of town thou.It took many years to realized that even thou I was the mother to my mother, that wasnt my place and I had no real experience in taking care of someone who needed so much help. I had to admit to myself, that I couldnt have held her hand everyday, for fear she would die. I grew up that way and it was just a natural part of my life to take care of her. I gave her sponge baths when she was out of it, I wiped puke off of her face, changed her gown, nursed her in her pill induced haze,,,and just kept quiet to the world about it.
((((Dede)))) You did so well...but as you said, you should'nt have had to be responsible for all that.
I stayed near my mother after my brother and sister moved out so I could carry on looking after her and protecting her..I used to nurse her injuries from my father from when I was seven and wondered whether she'd die in my care and imagine how i'd felt if she had? I was'nt allowed to call an ambulance...terrifying...we should have been able and allowed to ask for help for them-but we were just children...I think that's why we're left with little nagging guilty doubts...but we should'nt think like that...circumstances put us in that position..but age prevented us being able to sort it out- so we did what we could- we just looked after them and loved them-my mother spoke of suicide often..and children should'nt have to hear things like that...I just wanted to wrap her up and make her feel better and thought I could and felt like afailure when she did'nt get happier as the years went by.
we had slightly different situations-but similar burdons at too young an age. I don't think that if you had watched her all the time you could have prevented what she did that day; we have to respect people's ability to choose their own path and sometimes all we can do is accept that they could'nt find the help they needed from anyone and just be proud of ourselves for being there and letting them know how much we loved them..my mother too, just before she died appologised for everything, and i felt as you did-to be that close to her was wonderful; I was glad to be there-but thinking about it, I should'nt have had to...your mum sounded as loved as mine ...I bet she was so proud of you
you know, i look at my daughter and i see with my eyes how beautiful she is to me.
so many times we hear them say such cute things, smart things, funny things, etc......... we brush their hair, we dress them and play.
but so many times, i hear coming out of my mouth, "you're so beautiful" or "you're so pretty.
I did'nt get the 'You're smart, you're beauiful you're amazing' talk either and it is really important to tell your children that, I know what you mean Sally; my girls are always teling me what they're going to do in the future and I have to stop myself from saying their aims are sometimes unrealistic because they have so much confidence.
I think they have a lovely balance of confidence, great self image and inability to accept failure as an option.It's incredible that confident, happy kids are so easy to make, and so sad that alot of parents fall mess up their kid's lives. If you love them unconditionally, never be-littling their dreams and tell them how great it is to share your life with them they're going to be amazing
I works both ways too though...last night I was a bit low and was singing really quietly to myself..my daughter (14) came up behind me and kissed my hair and wrapped her arms around me and said 'Oh, mum, you're so sweet! ' I love the way these georgeous, natural children we've made give it right back when they see we need it.