Again, i hate to be overly blunt, but your husband has pulled a huge bait and switch on you.
He was willing to sleep with you prior to marriage (at least thats what it seems like based on your op), which is a HUGE jw nono, ends up marrying you so he can be accepted back into his cult.
He now expects YOU to be ok with his adherence to cult rules, something he clearly wasnt asking at the start.
i understand marriage asks for compromise but he has misrepresented this from the start and its unfortunate but you have no idea how deep this rabbit holes goes. You were never raised a jw and seem to think this is nothing more than him going to church.
It isnt. Its a cult and will dominate EVERY aspect of his life. You are just one of those aspects.
Again, im sorry to be blunt and i hate to come accross dogmatically but you dont seem to fully understand or appreciate what he has gotten the two of you into by his return to that “religion”.