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Does True Love Still Exist??

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i have been goin out with this girl for a few months now and weve spent sooo much time together.

things seem to be goin really well and i feel like we will end up gettin married.

but she seems to put her studies and family before me.

yeah see thats a problem...her parents...i dunno she just cant think for her self she always says it...i ask her wat she really wants in life and shes always like i dun really know...and see i really dun like how people chose their careers based on the money....coz yeah doctor here is no.1 for it has the highest paid rate....and plus its guranteed 100% job once u finish ur degree....she said that.....but i dun like how people go for money it just seems like they are really money greedy....i mean me id be happy with my course which is IT....it offers all i need....i dun need so much money and neither does she but its her parents damnit....like u should see her...she stresses out so much everyday thinkin about all this stuff....its not makin her happy at all...and she even says it that her parents just keep stressin her about it never makin her happy....

i guess ur right about her puttin her self first...its true....she has to respect her self and want her own happiness as well.....but i didnt mean it such that she would lose all this...but at least u know put u before alot of things...like me i at times put her before everyone...just to make her hapy..it sitll made me happy...like iwouldnt do it if it was gonna destroy somethin about me if u know wat i mean.....yeah i admit i dun want to be a slave...nor do i want to make someone a slave....but id like to do the hard work and all to help out the girl...as long as she gives me the honosty and complete love....trust.....id be so happy....thats all ive ever wanted.....

if it is true love id support her and accept her just as she is?.....but wat if its a person thats always depressed and wat if i can see that in future...she will continue to b like this....how can i let her b down? i cant.....and i love her and i want her to be succesfull....but being succesful doesnt mean u have to complete some course...esp when its not even REALLY her dream.....its somethin she thinks is essential....like shes been raised up in that way...she thinks that if she doesnt go into that career....its like over!...u cant be financially secure etc. etc.....i dunno....i always thought that true love didnt involve money etc....first came the love...and then together u can find a way to make money.....and also havin ur dream career yes...but wat if its not? is there any point?.....

plans for my life? i have goals which dun seem to mean much no more....i want to do somethin in IT area coz its of interest plus it will provide the sufficent money i need..im not the type that will work my life away for money that wont even be needed...and i just want to have a proper family u know...coz ive been raised up in a poor environment and i want to have children and give them wat my parents could never give me...i dun mean this in materialistic ways....and i want a wife that love me just as much as i love her...but i seem to care and love to a great extent sometimes i feel that kinda of love isnt existant in this world anymore...from all this greed....

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Does True Love Still Exist??

by [email protected] in

i have been goin out with this girl for a few months now and weve spent sooo much time together.

things seem to be goin really well and i feel like we will end up gettin married.

but she seems to put her studies and family before me.

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i am a jw yes....and i do put him before all....but i have jsut become so attached to this girl...and yeah consider it selfsih for me to expect such a thing....but i put her before that stuff....and the thing is she duin reallly actually wanna do that..she is being forced by her parents and they just push her into somethin sayin that its the only way of gettin money etc. and she thinks thats true now.....they dont really tend to be affectionate wit her...this is wat she even said her self and that she has actually only ever recieved love from me....and her parents never gave her much and they just care about her work.....they seem selfish if u ask me...they dun even care if shes happythey just want her to make money money money!!>.....and she even confronted em once sayin that they never made her happy and thye didnt care...they just said "yeah its true we just want u to be succesffull etc...." see i just feel really sorr for her shes trapped by these idiots....but i gues i could be selfish too...i dunno?

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Does True Love Still Exist??

by [email protected] in

i have been goin out with this girl for a few months now and weve spent sooo much time together.

things seem to be goin really well and i feel like we will end up gettin married.

but she seems to put her studies and family before me.

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its also more to the fact that many girls nowadays care about money and materials....they look for this stuff in a guy too....it seems to come before love...then after the love is found but i dun belive it shoud b done that way if u know wat i mean...

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Does True Love Still Exist??

by [email protected] in

i have been goin out with this girl for a few months now and weve spent sooo much time together.

things seem to be goin really well and i feel like we will end up gettin married.

but she seems to put her studies and family before me.

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yes of course we put god before all things...but im talkin about after that.....

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Does True Love Still Exist??

by [email protected] in

i have been goin out with this girl for a few months now and weve spent sooo much time together.

things seem to be goin really well and i feel like we will end up gettin married.

but she seems to put her studies and family before me.

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I have been goin out with this girl for a few months now and weve spent sooo much time together. Things seem to be goin really well and i feel like we will end up gettin married. But she seems to put her studies and family before me. Like she is worried that her family might find out about us and if they did its true some trouble would arise. But its the same with me i mean if i got caught my parents wouldnt accept it now...but yeah its just like..i dun care i still do it and take the risk to b wit her and i always put her before my self....she comes first in my life and i dun feel that she does the same......and i was talkin to my friends about it and they have had the same problem before where they have ended up breakin up with the person...some were due to reasons that the girl was more into money. THis seems to be a big factor like wit one of my friends relationships the girl just wanted money really...olike she expected expensive gifts and all..and i think its just stupid....money shouldnt determine love???? im worried that my girlfriend would end up like that i mean she studies relaly hard coz she wants to become a doctor....now i know the only reason for that is because her parents force her into it...plus she says its for guranteed financial security...but iwas thiknin how much money does someone need??

i mean u dont need to have some extreme high position job to live of well....u dont even need that much...im really worried as to if she is all interested in money as well....that would become aproblem for me beacuse i only care about love first and i dont want a relationship where someone cares about money to such an extent.....i dunno is it possible to have a girl that would put u before anyother?? coz im doin just that and it feels one sided i dunno?

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