I still am. Anyone for a meal cooked by me, after you take a bubble bath which I just drew for you, where there are candles in the bathroom? Then after you feast on my scrumpteous morsels, I will give you a back massage by the fire place, and refill your glass of wine. I might just nibble on your ear......
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Question for you Men: Are you a ...
by codeblue inhopeless romantic?.
i am a hopeless romantic and a woman.
until i met mr. cb, i had never heard a man say he also was a "hopeless romantic"...when he said that, i knew our connection would be sealed.. codeblue
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Beer survey
by dustyb inwhat brand of suds does everyone drink here?
i personally enjoy good ole' bud light.
but if i have to be cheap i do sacrifice taste for quanity and buy keystone ice (ack).
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Puternut
I only drink 'smart' beer. It made Bud Wiser.......
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Break through !
by Puternut ini have been df'd for about a year and also been going through a nasty divorce.
my ex has the kids and they're all jw's.
so my ex has been pumping into my childrens heads, that since i am df'd, they are to have no contact with me.
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To let you all know, my oldest is 19 and my youngest is 16. All through out our lives, we were closer than they were with my ex. We did EVERYTHING together. We rode bicycles, hiked, spend wee hours into the night playing video games, played rough, we sailed my catamaran. While my ex was watching Oprah and Dr.Phil or in bed.
I feel like suing the elder body, for talking bad about me. Same goes for the wife, since she is by law not to make any disperaging remarks about me, to the kids, or in front of the kids. But since I have a little victory, and time with my children is more important than waisting anymore money on the court system and lawyers, I'll see how things go for now. But I feel powerful with some papers in my hands. And though I know the kids will feel a little uneasy at first, because it goes against what they believe, I am going to be persistent in the visits. In time they will see that their df'd daddy is not as bad as the organization makes me out to be. It seems like the organization automatically labels df's with bad people. I am still who I am, personality and all. DF me all you want, but that doesn't change me as an individual !
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Break through !
by Puternut ini have been df'd for about a year and also been going through a nasty divorce.
my ex has the kids and they're all jw's.
so my ex has been pumping into my childrens heads, that since i am df'd, they are to have no contact with me.
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I have been df'd for about a year and also been going through a nasty divorce. My ex has the kids and they're all JW's. So my ex has been pumping into my childrens heads, that since I am df'd, they are to have no contact with me. And every time I called the house to talk to my kids, I was told: they don't want to talk to you! But I never heard that out of my children's mouths. And she refused to let the kids see me. I took it to court.
I told her I am divorcing you, not my kids. You can df me, but you cannot df me from my kids. These are my children for pete's sake's. Just a few days ago my oldest daughter decided to walk in my studio. I was floored. I cried and couldn't believe I hadn't seen her in 9 months. I asked her for the reason of the visit. She told me she works a few blocks from where I work, and walks by my studio quite often. She just didn't want to get in trouble with the elders, but she would peek through the windows to get a glimpse of me. She mustered up enough courage that day and walked in. We spend and hour and a half chatting about all kinds of things. And we had a great time. I am still shaking in my shoes from the excitement. We hugged and kissed as we parted and I told her she would be welcome anytime for a visit. I just hope she doesn't talk to her mother about this, since she is very contolling. But I had another victory.
During the whole ordeal while I was fighting with the court system, about parental visitation, I just now have legally every other weekend. Plus vacation time and the summer. It's on paper and it's legal and binding with all the signatures to prove it !
The point I get from my daughters visit is this. The organization is extremely contolling, but the bond that exists between family members is stronger that anything else. And she broke the rules technically, but she knew we needed to connect. I am so proud of her, for having made that step. I know I will see more of them. My youngest is still controlled by the organization, and her emotional makeup is quite different. I hope that even though I haven't spoken to her for about a year, this new arrangement will repair some damage.
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What do you believe in?
by Joysome ini mean when it comes to life, death, god, the universe etc.
have you gone and learned about other religions.
what do you feel is the purpose of life?
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I believe in wholesome sex............
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UN sends reply to my inquiry about WTS NGO association- proof at last!
by joe_from_kokomo indear friends:.
it's been a while since i posted last, even though i probably still suffer with a newbie status, i did some dandy postings a few months back.
my wife and i are now approaching the 1 year anniversary of our split with the wtbts, and are quite happy with our decision.. one thing we did last year was to write to the u.n directly (i think i got the address from a posting here on this site) and asked specific and direct questions about the wts's involvement and knowledge of ngo requirements.
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OK, people great work. Now can we send a similar letter to the WT, and see what their response is to all of this.
1. The reason why they 'felt' they needed to become a member.
2. Will they OPENLY acknowledge to the entire organization about this goofup.
3. Will they apologize to the entire organization.
4. Will they liquidate all stocks and bonds in companies associated with warfare.
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Please give me a question
by galaxy7 in.
well my weekly bible study is coming up this week and i am being blessed with the cuircut servant and his wife.i was told last week to save all my questions for them,(beacause of my difficulty with believing in 1914).
does anyone have a question that they would like me to ask.. .
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If the society stands neutral in this world, then why does it have stock in Regi Tech, US Navy, US Department of Defense, US House of Representatives, US Security and Exchange Commision SEC?
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Spankings at the hall.
by avishai ini knew some parents who really beat the hell out of their kids.
anyone else remember this?
seems like when i was a kid, you could'nt go to a meeting without hearing screams of pain from either the b room or the bathrooms.
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Not only were spankings annoying at the hall for others to listen to, while the meeting was in progress, but it usually didn't stop there. Some kids were required to answer at least twice during the meeting, or else they would be getting it at home. And if they didn't pay proper attention at the long assemblies, then there would be no swimming at the pool that evening. And if their WT wasn't prepared thouroughly, they would get no lunch until they had gone back and restudy the articles. So is this child abuse to the inth degree?
You be the judge.
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Women ....
by Celtic inwomen.. they're a rummily scrumptious lot.. take breasts for example.
from a mans point of view, how much better can life be, when you got a beautiful pair of scrumptious breasts to kiss and cuddle upto.
if god was a breast, i'd love him to bits.. breasts.
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Ummm, do chicken breasts count?
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Waiting on Jehovah
by Puternut inthere were so many times, when things didn't seem right in the organization or congregation, or when things weren't understood, you were informed : "just wait on jehovah, or in time jehovah will make it right".
my question becomes obscured with the fact that if in fact the elders are appointed by holy spirit, he would also direct them to make the right decisions in behalf of his congregation right?.
but if one of the elders felt he would be directed by god, and did things in behalf of his congregation, why would he be called on the carpet?
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There were so many times, when things didn't seem right in the organization or congregation, or when things weren't understood, you were informed : "Just wait on Jehovah, or in time Jehovah will make it right". My question becomes obscured with the fact that IF in fact the elders are appointed by Holy Spirit, he would also direct them to make the right decisions in behalf of his congregation right?
But if one of the elders felt he would be directed by God, and did things in behalf of his congregation, why would he be called on the carpet? My point in case is this; I was involved in a totally gone wrong abuse case. I informed the Society of the abuse, and received and answer, that I morally and personally couldn't follow. And so I did things in behalf of the victim and their family. And justice was served in the long run toward the abuser. He's now in jail. Later I posted an article with the silentlambs.
IF we were to 'wait on Jehovah' as the WT likes to put it, this man would still be in the organization, since he was reinstated after six months by his fellow elder friends. And he already had his eyes on other young sisters, soon after his reinstatement, and possibly commit another crime. Why is it not permissible to stand up for what is right, and in the long run get a slap in your face for being directed by God? I was under the impression that we were accountable to God, if we aware of a crime and didn't do something about it, in behalf of his sheep.
Puzzled,
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