ohhh I love that way of looking at it.hmmm wonder how many hours I can get in this month uhmmm say writing letters or visiting an older relative in the nursing home.
Posts by kat2u
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22something I've noticed...
by LuckyNun init's much more fun to anti-witness.
i used to hate going out in service, peddling a religion i didn't believe in.
but telling people about how the jw religion is full of shit?
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Why do people get mad at the person who answers when they dial a wrong # ?
by somebodylovesme injust venting for a minute.
most commonly, they say, "well, if you're not the newspaper, then what's the newspaper's number?
" 'cause i can't remember which digit is different.
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kat2u
Ive had some really funny experiences with wrong numbers.Once when someone called we told them it was the wrong number so they tried again and again and kept calling us.well we thought it would be fun to answer the phone with different accents and sometimes stange businessess.massage parlors and funeral homes.took this poor person waaayy too long to catch on.
Another time some poor women was sure her husband was there alone with me.And I had no clue who this guy was or his wife in fact I felt very bad for her and ended up ,after I convinced her I didnt know him, trying to calm her down and comfort her.
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kat2u
ohhh and love the name!!!
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kat2u
hello to you too. And WELCOME!!!!!
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letter to family
by kat2u in.
i am in the process of writing a letter to my mother.i have been told by family members that she knows im going to come back into the fold.and has thus decided that untill i do she will not be in the same place as i am again.this also includes mt parents 50th wedding anniversary in june.my father wants me there is has never been a jw.but mom has decided that if i attend then she cannot.this all added to the fact that she is in continual contact with my eldest daughter to "keep consistent" in their treatment of me.i am angry and intend to explain to her the fact that i will never be a jw again and to explain to her why.. i have seen many wonderful letters others have posted to family members.im just looking for anyone who has any ideas or thoughts that i might be able to use in my letter..
thankyou!!!!
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kat2u
I am in the process of writing a letter to my mother.I have been told by family members that she KNOWS im going to come back into the fold.And has thus decided that untill I do she will not be in the same place as I am again.This also includes mt parents 50th wedding anniversary in June.My father wants me there is has never been a jw.But mom has decided that if I attend then she cannot.This all added to the fact that she is in continual contact with my eldest daughter to "keep consistent" in their treatment of me.I am angry and intend to explain to her the fact that i will never be a jw again and to explain to her why.
I have seen many wonderful letters others have posted to family members.Im just looking for anyone who has any ideas or thoughts that I might be able to use in my letter.
Thankyou!!!!!
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I dont pray anymore.
by Stefanie ini havent prayed in years.
i quit praying while i was still going to meetings.
i stopped praying when my elder ex would pack the kids in the car and say if i didnt go to the meeting then i wouldnt see them again.
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kat2u
This thread hits home for me.I want to pray and feel close to god.But im still too angry.If he is the god whom I have been taught he is then he seems like someone who needs constant attention, and is very selfish and mean kinda like a very spoiled child.
On the other hand I do see the beautiful things of life.I want to heal enough to believe he exists again.And to feel close to him.
But Ill first have to be able to see a different god than the god I see now.
Kat
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Calling on all of you for support and prayers or energy for me!
by Sunnygal41 inhi, everyone.................well, the shite has finally hit the fan...........i'm meeting with the superintendent, head of personnel and my boss today at 1:00 over the "comment/incident" of february 25, 2004. i will have union representation with me........my union steward and the president of the union.
the comment was personally inappropriate and i'm sorry it ever came out of my mouth.
the only defense i have is that i was angry at the time and stressed with some heavy personal stuff.
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kat2u
sending all my positive thoughts and good vibes.....
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Ladies, what kind of fragrance (cologne) do you like?
by dustyb ini had this french stuff named "angel" by theirry mugler and it drove my g/f wild.
but it got stolen, and the downside of it is its 100 bucks roughly a bottle.
i don't mind paying, i was just wondering if there's any other good smelling cologne, because i hate going into stores to "shop around".
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kat2u
design,ysatis,paris and nikki de saint phaelle.... depends on my mood
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Emotional Blackmail and ex-JWs
by Lady Lee inbased on a discussion last night and a request to write something about it i went hunting through some old posts and found this one.
emotional blackmail and jws.
we were discussing whether it is emotional abuse when the elders visit us after we have left and wind up being nasty or try to pressure us to go back.. so i was thinking - what are some of their tactics and would they fit into this category?.
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kat2u
kalela,
first of all WELCOME! I only found this forum a bit over a month ago and can tell you its been very helpful.I also am blackmailed by family members.Its wondertful to find those who can understand.
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How Do You Cope With Stress?
by shamus ini have a hard time coping with it, seeing as i have an anxiety disorder.
how do you not think of things like work, relationships, money, getting a cat, etc.
without freaking out?
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kat2u
ohhh I agree with blondie hugging my dog can be very relaxing.