ok, this thread is so old that I don't think he's ever going to see this response, but here's what I think...
if they'd only recall that wathchtower a few years ago that said that it was okay to go to college as long it was so that you can serve God more fully without ecomomic problems holding you back
They may tell you all these reasons not to go, but what they don't tell you is you're really on your own financially and if 20 or 30 years down the road (gasp! the new system isn't here yet?) you can't make it financially, you won't get a formal apology. Nobody will feel sorry for you.
What it comes down to is this is your decision and yours alone. They get frustrated they can't do anything, really, to stop you from going to college, so they go overboard with the pressure tactics they use to dissuade you from going. But at the same time they'll tell you that it's your own responsibility to make a living. So if it's your responsibility, then you should make all the decisions relating to it, because you will be the one to either benefit from this decision or not.
It's just like when a sister told me I am not allowed to have a 2 door sports car, I asked her if she was gonna pay for my car? no? well then, she didn't get to make any decisions relating to it then, was she?
My 2 cents.