Randy,
Excellent post. It seems strange that in the late 19th and early 20th century women in the Watchtower organization had more rights, while in the rest of the United States, women did not have the right to vote until around 1920. Today, women in society have equalized pretty much every aspect of their lives along side men, and it won't be long before they have completely addressed everything possible.
I can recall as a JW how the Watchtower continuously published articles about headship, and emphasized this over and over again through talks and "counseling." I well remember how the Society leaders would, on one hand, demand that women put the conventions and assemblies first for their families and not be overly concerned about mundane things at home. Then, while these same women were at the assemblies, turn right around and ask the women if their "loyalty" moved them to make sure that their homes were clean, beds made, and dishes washed so that they could be at the conventions in good conscience.
My wife would look at me and ask why these guys were demanding so much, and wondered if they could handle the load. I agreed with her, and told her not to let these talks bother her. I have no doubt that a lot of other JWs just turned a deaf ear to the nonsense. But, I can't help but wonder about those who took it all in and actually tried to live up to an impossible standard. While my wife was not pressured by me to keep up as demanded, and I helped more as I realized how she was burdened, the only real relief came when we both left the Watchtower Slave Driving Society.
If the Watchtower really wanted to live up to the Bible, they would read and study Paul's words where he said that there is no distinction between male and female, for all are the same before God, and get off their false understanding of so-called headship.
Jim Whitney