Good idea Dan-o, BUT, another option would be to send the love letters addressed to the Elders in his Congregation and mailed to his Kingdom Hall, That way any amount of lies he has told or will tell could not get him out of the situation! But, then again, maybe this would also be Vindictive, and you may wish to ignore this too....
Lady Lee is an excellent therapist, and would recommend taking to heart what she has already written to you, she has helped a lot of people!!!
Good luck, and remember someone will come along who will be truly honest with you, just be patient.