the best thing of course would be if you could get her out, but do you really want to invest the time and energy that it takes. it might not work. she needs to have doubts and be ready. a lot of people are scared to leave because of the ramification even if they are not happy being in it. it is better for you to leave for your own well being.
prgirl79
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Please help! ( I have a question?)
by bsylva inmy question is this,.
and she loves me as well.
however i was baptised as a catholic as a child.
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Make Up A Prophecy or a Statement You'd Like To See In A Watchtower
by minimus insince the watchtower has regularly disseminated "false prophecy" over the years and has given truly silly reasonings for their beliefs, let's give the society some ideas as to what they might put into the next watchtower.....i'll start----"since the elders are representatives of christ jesus himself, we should give them glory too.
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prgirl79
sirona that was good!!! :)
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Please help! ( I have a question?)
by bsylva inmy question is this,.
and she loves me as well.
however i was baptised as a catholic as a child.
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prgirl79
it is good that you are asking now. you asked her and she said exactly what others have told you she would. save yourself the time and trouble. you sound like a great guy.
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Please help! ( I have a question?)
by bsylva inmy question is this,.
and she loves me as well.
however i was baptised as a catholic as a child.
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prgirl79
hi,
i have been there i dated an ex jw for 5 years, and it might seem harsh when others say to run, i know you must love her, but please listen. i ended up being hurt, angry, frustrated. it's not worth it you deserve so much better. this really is a cult. there will be a lot you will have to give up and you will never be the most important thing
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ex hasn't left me alone
by prgirl79 inwell i wrote my first post in april.
where a lot of you responded and were very helpful.
i was another victim of being a non-jw dating a messed up disfellowshipped jw.
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i am having my emails at work changed so he can't reach me anymore. I recently moved and changed my number so he will have no way of reaching me except calling me at work at which point i will just hang up.
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ex hasn't left me alone
by prgirl79 inwell i wrote my first post in april.
where a lot of you responded and were very helpful.
i was another victim of being a non-jw dating a messed up disfellowshipped jw.
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well i wrote my first post in April. where a lot of you responded and were very helpful. I was another victim of being a non-jw dating a messed up disfellowshipped jw. It was so hard dealing with it. My ex says he will not go back. Yet he doesn't move on. he never went to wedding, funerals, birthdays you know the deal. It has been 8 months. It's still hard i still do love him and it hurts, but I feel free from this. He would say i would leave him, resent him and feel free. I do. He has tried for months calling and emailing me. I tell him over and over that i dont' want any communication whatsoever. He wrote to me today once again after calling me at work first. I never told him to be less attached to his parents just to move out and move on. He would call and complain when jws are at his parents house. He says i was a miserable person. Not true most people know me as usually being happy stressed of course with school full time job etc. Well this is what he wrote. If you guys want to share your thoughts, advise. I have never responded to his emails. I just don't see the point.
I'm sorry about the phone call and I am sorry if you get mad at the fact that I am writing you. I promise that this will in fact be the last time you hear from me in anyway because I honestly want to respect your request and because I feel like an idiot having tried so many times to talk and just keep, in essence, getting smacked in the face.
What I have been wanting to tell you xxxxx... is that you were right. I know that you knew that but it took me some time to realize that. You were right about me and the things I needed to change and the fact that I needed to be more flexible. You were right about me needing to be less attached to my parents and less worried about what they would think. You were right about me needing to get out more and be less uptight. You were right about me and my latino macho attitude. I am sorry about the way things turned out because I know that I caused most of it. You were stressed out and I didn't help. At times I felt like you were a miserable person but I know that alot of it was probably a reaction to the way things were going.
The last eight months have been crazy for me, alot has been happening internally(mentally) and externally(life in general)and like I said in my call, I just feel like it would be such a tragedy, such a waste, if after having known each other for that long we simply acted like we didn't know each other because the truth is that sometimes I wish I could call you and talk to you simply to talk. At times I think to myself how sad it is that I didn't realize any of this earlier, because I now honestly feel like I am a different person, and that I am more like that person I should have been before. But hey, it is what it is, and in telling you all of this I seek nothing more than to tell you this and to sincerely say that I'm sorry.
I hope that in the future you find someone who treats you the right way from the very beginning because you do deserve it. I know that if we gave it another try things just wouldn't be the same; too much has happened for things to be normal again. I understand that things are different now but I want you to know that I care about you and love you as a person, how can I not after the time we spent together, and because of that I want you to be happy and if we never speak again I at least would like to know, or hear somehow, through the grapevine, that you are doing well, that you're happy, and that you've succeeded in acheiving all the goals you've set out for yourself. I hope for nothing but the best for you.
With much love,
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from another Bible help please..
by strawpuppy ini have a post from another forum that i am very interested in, but, i would love to hear a few of your views on the subject.. i am now going to dig into my bible to have a look to see what he is talking about, but i know that the view of jehovah's witnesses is about as close to the best intereptation of the bible there is...this is the post..... "-the eastern or golden gate, which was sealed for almost a 1200 years is a key part to bible prophecy.
ezekiel recorded the prophecy about the closing of this gate.
he told how the lord brought him to the eastern gate.. .
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prgirl79
i couldn't say it as well as you guys!!!
jgnat is right all jw's are are well rehearsed. And of course they are accesible you are a potential person to recruit and a "casual researcher"
Good One Jgnat does mcdonald's provide the best food!! :)
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from another Bible help please..
by strawpuppy ini have a post from another forum that i am very interested in, but, i would love to hear a few of your views on the subject.. i am now going to dig into my bible to have a look to see what he is talking about, but i know that the view of jehovah's witnesses is about as close to the best intereptation of the bible there is...this is the post..... "-the eastern or golden gate, which was sealed for almost a 1200 years is a key part to bible prophecy.
ezekiel recorded the prophecy about the closing of this gate.
he told how the lord brought him to the eastern gate.. .
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Brummie brings up a good point try asking questions on things they have changed believe me they won't be so happy to talk about it. T
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from another Bible help please..
by strawpuppy ini have a post from another forum that i am very interested in, but, i would love to hear a few of your views on the subject.. i am now going to dig into my bible to have a look to see what he is talking about, but i know that the view of jehovah's witnesses is about as close to the best intereptation of the bible there is...this is the post..... "-the eastern or golden gate, which was sealed for almost a 1200 years is a key part to bible prophecy.
ezekiel recorded the prophecy about the closing of this gate.
he told how the lord brought him to the eastern gate.. .
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1) of course they want to talk to you ever heard of love bombing! They want to recruit all the time!
2) "they try to find the answer" sorry to be mean but that is funny. Try asking questions you will get it is a new light, wait on Jehovah, serve more, read more. Try and question them better yet get baptized and after that ask a question you will see how quickly they answer it!
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from another Bible help please..
by strawpuppy ini have a post from another forum that i am very interested in, but, i would love to hear a few of your views on the subject.. i am now going to dig into my bible to have a look to see what he is talking about, but i know that the view of jehovah's witnesses is about as close to the best intereptation of the bible there is...this is the post..... "-the eastern or golden gate, which was sealed for almost a 1200 years is a key part to bible prophecy.
ezekiel recorded the prophecy about the closing of this gate.
he told how the lord brought him to the eastern gate.. .
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1) Ok your agnostic, but can still say that jw's have the best interpretation you obviously haven't done much research!!
2) you also don't know what jw's have done to others their shunning people, losing their lives for refusing blood transfusions, and the list goes on ever heard of a cult well that is what they are !! so i think they have the right to discuss it besides isn't this what this forum is for!!!!!!!!!!