I am enjoying your stories but It disturbs me that your Bethel experience did not allow you to really get to know our great city. As a native New Yorker, I had many bethelites in my congo in Brooklyn and me and my friends made sure that we always included the bethelites in all of our entertainment activites.
One of the first things we used to do was to take the bethelites on a sightseeing trip to the Statue of Liberty, Coney Island, the Empire State Building , WTC , and a few musuems.
We always took them to baseball, and basketball games, and movies and plays. Of course we always picked up the tab for the guys, we understood that you guys were making a sacrifice for Jehovah, so we felt that you deserved what ever help we could give.(Boy, I really sound like a deluded dub)
Because of its diversity, sports, culture and entertainment, NYC is one of the best cities in the world to live in. I know it has its faults, expensive is just one of them, I would never trade my time spent there and I hope your time spent in Bethel hasn't soured you on our city.