I am going to "absolutely" say that it is the "dress code for women" AND them(JW's) contradicting themselves when some one is not following it.
I studied with the Witnesses for about 8 months. At no point did I attend mettings in what was considered dress code. I wore nice, dress clothes, often things I designed & made myself. "real nice pantsuits, skorts, coullotts, dresses slightly above my knee.... no jeans or sweats or anything like that"
I went to lunch & a tour of the Patterson facility dressed in a pink pantsuit that I designed & made, and was "complemented on it", by numerous people including the Circut Overseer's wife.... saying "I was so creative"
"They make up their own rules about the dress code".... someone else was told she could not come with us because she & her daughter had on pants(jeans)