i am sooooo excited for both you and rt, scarlet!!!!
harleyquinn
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I had my 20 week Sonogram today and........
by Scarlet inrandom task and i are having a healthy beautiful little girl (amelia sophia), they uped the due date from may 14 to may 9. it is just what we wanted we are so excited.
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Ozzie's Weekend Poll #123
by ozziepost inhow's this weekend going for you?
stinking hot downunder - and humid too.
really draining weather - y'know what i mean?.
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harleyquinn
#4 and #9...i really enjoyed the company and getting to know someone better whilst out doing the door-to-door thing....i never had a bible study, and was tremendously shy while a jw, so it was rare i would even knock at a door...so for me, definately fellowship with the hottie-o-the-week..
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The 80's anthem: "The Breakfast Club"
by AlmostAtheist ini just watched the breakfast club for the bazillionth time.
i always turn 15 again when i watch it.
i need to score the dvd, it isn't the same when they clip out scenes and rewrite the "naughty words".
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harleyquinn
oooo...the breakfast club...one of the best 80's movies ever!!! i so related to ally sheedy's character....
hq~of the 'i'm not psychic, i stole your wallet' class
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My sad news
by Fe2O3Girl inas some of you on the board knew i was expecting a baby, i feel i should let you know that things have not worked out for us.. when i went for the 20 week ultrasound scan last thursday, severe problems were found with our baby's internal development.
only one kidney was detected, and it was very enlarged and polycystic.
there was no long term hope for the baby at all; if it survived to full term it could only live for hours at most.
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harleyquinn
many, many heartfelt condolences....
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MUST you respond in a thread?
by logansrun ini've come to a new conclusion about myself, this board and communication in general: i don't need to respond, elaborate, explain or otherwise defend myself to other people.
most notably on this board, of course.
here's my reasoning: .
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harleyquinn
I choose only to respond to more interesting, philosophically stimulating or novel topics. Or anything having to do with tits.
i can twirl tassles ...that's interesting.....i have often pondered what my existence would be like, in a philosophically stimulating sense, without them.....and i have had in-depth, some might say novel, discussions on decoration and exposure of my tits....
discuss...
hq~of the i-must-respond-to-logan's-threads class...
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Name Things That You Can Be Counseled For
by minimus ini'll start.......a woman wearing a skirt higher than her knee and a child crying during a meeting
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harleyquinn
wearing too much black clothing..."girls are supposed to wear 'pretty colours'"...and having my hair too short..."you don't look feminine enough and people will think you're a lesbian if you have short hair"
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What Is Your Biggest Regret Because You Were a Jehovah's Witness?
by minimus ingrowing up as a witness makes it nearly impossible to deal with the "world", as a child.
constant pressure is put on witness kids to conform.
most lead a "double life" out of necessity.
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harleyquinn
not being allowed any friends...i was in a mostly older congregation and only saw kids my age at assemblies....and not being allowed to go to college as an english major...not 'reliable' enough a major, the parents said...
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Sing Jim_Tx's praises..............
by Sunnygal41 in.
there is a member of our forum here who is really quite the charming gentleman, if you get to know him..............he's very shy, but, i thought it might be nice to say a few nice words about him anyways...........care to share and say something nice about jim?.
he'll probably be very upset with me for making such a fuss, but, he's worth it...........
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harleyquinn
not only a fine looking gentleman, but very funny and very kind....he has a heart of gold....
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Your body is a temple.
by kwintestal inso don't do anything to it.. leaving a high-control group such as the wts can leave you with an internal desire to rebel against the teachings you once held to.. did you do anything previously forbidden soon after you left the borg?
tattoos?
peircings?
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harleyquinn
Did you do anything previously forbidden soon after you left the bOrg? Tattoos? Peircings? Destroying your liver with excessive amounts of alcohol? Anything.
i had tremendous amounts of sex...and tremendous amounts of alcohol...no permanent liver damage, however...
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I finally said enough is enough (shunning)
by Fleur ini did what i was asked.
all these weeks, i did all my mother asked when it came to dealing with the matters at hand for her.
i'm nothing, if not loyal.. so over the weekend, when mother called for us to please come and deal with my relatives coming to the house to pick up boxes of my grandmother's belongings.
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harleyquinn
I decided there was no way in hell I was going to validate these people or their hairbrained cult by going to my grandmother's so called memorial, which would actually be an infomercial for the WTS anyway. They would have so called 'worldly' family there who make me look like a saint when it comes to track record but because they weren't baptized as children, they are fine and dandy to associate with. HYPOCRITES! I want no part of any of this. My husband said the only word that fit the way that I have been treated is "inhumane."
(((essie)))
good job, doll! and your husband is a smart man....inhumane, indeed. i've been through the same thing with my family and it is liberating to just come to the conclusion that you need to do what YOU need to do to be happy...as you said, you can't keep validating them.
*many hugs to you*
lisa